Q: After years of dreaming about starting my own business, I finally took the plunge a little over a year ago. To say the least, my dream quickly became a nightmare. The business didn't do nearly as well as I had hoped. I ran out of money within six months and had to take out a second mortgage on my house just to keep things going. I have now closed the business and am left with a pile of bills that will probably put me in personal bankruptcy. I don't mean to take it out on you, but instead of telling people how great having your own business is all the time you should also warn them that starting a business is not easy and can be devastating when things go wrong. -- Gene K.
A: Gene, I hope that I have never given anyone the impression that having your own business is a walk in the park. To the contrary, I'm like the proverbial Chicken Little when it comes to warning readers of the obstacles and pitfalls that await those considering the entrepreneurial plunge.
To quote myself from a column I wrote earlier this year, "If it was easy, my friend, everybody would do it."
Just to make sure we're in agreement, let me reiterate the standard warnings once again. Starting a business is incredibly hard work. It takes long hours and deep pockets. It demands unbridled passion and unquestioned commitment. It requires that you give of yourself until you often feel there is nothing left to give. And sometimes, even after you've done all that you can do and given all that you can give, the business fails.
Period.
Blood, sweat, and tears can only carry you so far in the business world. Good intentions and grand ideas won't pay the office rent. You can not make payroll with Monopoly money.
I certainly don't mean to make light of your situation. In fact, I know exactly how you feel. I failed so miserably my first time in business that I swore I would never think about working for myself again. All I wanted to do was to find a nice, secure 9-to-5 job that provided me with a nice steady paycheck. I yearned for the opportunity to grow fat and happy on someone else's payroll for a change.
I never again wanted to have to think about customers or employees or withholding taxes or accounts receivable or anything else even remotely associated with being in business.
I just wanted to crawl in a hole and die because my business had failed, and in my All-American, macho male, "you are what you do" brain that meant that I was a failure, too.
Getting over the failure of a business can be extremely difficult, especially if you are one of those entrepreneurs (like I was) who wrongly relates the success or failure of a business to the success or failure of you as a person.
The best way that I know of to get over the failure of a business (and the deep feelings of personal failure that go along with it) is to do an autopsy of the business to help find out exactly what went wrong. Only by discovering our weakness can we build on our strengths (Yogi Berra eat your heart out).
It took a long time and an enormous amount of reflection to realize that the business had failed for many reasons, not simply because I was a miserable excuse for an entrepreneur. I wasn't looking to shuck the blame so much as simply trying to understand what really went wrong. A few years later when I mustered the courage to take the plunge again, I did so with the knowledge gained from my first failed business. I knew what I had done wrong and I knew what I'd done right. Lessons learned, put to good use. Knock wood, this time so far, so good.
Performing an autopsy on a failed business is a simple process, but one that can reveal a wealth of information that you can use should you ever decide to step out onto the business high wire again.
To do your business autopsy find a quiet place where you can sit and reflect on the life of your business. With pen and paper in hand (or laptop on lap) write down everything that you can think of that went right with the business and alternatively, everything that went wrong. Your goal is to create a "Success" versus "Failure" spreadsheet that will help you better understand exactly why the business went south.
For the autopsy to be effective, it is imperative that you are completely honest with yourself. Shove your ego in a drawer and be completely realistic or the autopsy will just become an exercise in futility. You will end up looking for scapegoats instead of reasons.
If your lack of experience was a contributing factor to the failure of the business, write it down. If your brilliant negotiating skills allowed you to close a big deal and beat out a competitor, write it down. If you were undercapitalized or incorrectly estimated your share of the market, write it down. If you had a partner who didn't pull his weight or a product that didn't sell as well as you thought it would or your building was flattened by an earthquake, write it down. Write it all down.
Once you have all the facts in front of you, it's easy to see why the business really failed. You might be surprised to find out that the failure of the business wasn't completely your fault, after all.
Then again, you might discover that the business failure was your fault. If that turns out to be the case, don't beat yourself up for long. Not everyone is cut out to be an entrepreneur and that's OK.
The world would be a miserable place if everyone sat around whining about their lack of customers or complaining about their employees.
Next time we'll take a look at the primary reasons businesses fail and discuss how you might avoid them.
Here's to your success.
Tim Knox
Small Business Q&A is written by veteran entrepreneur and syndicated columnist, Tim Knox. Tim serves as the president and CEO of three successful technology companies and is the founder of DropshipWholesale.net, an online organization dedicated to the success of online and eBay entrepreneurs.
Related Links:
http://www.prosperityandprofits.com
http://www.prosperityandprofits.com
http://www.prosperityandprofits.com
If you interviewed business owners of failed businesses, a majority... Read More
"The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing... Read More
What is a Virtual Assistant?A Virtual Assistant is a person... Read More
As a company grows, the owner's role begins to change.... Read More
How often have you thumbed through a business opportunity magazine,... Read More
Marketing is one of the four corner-posts of a solid... Read More
Small business success is very similar to learning to walk,... Read More
We all know that a building has to have a... Read More
If you're anything like me then you dislike with a... Read More
It has been discussed allowing Franchising companies to electronically disclose... Read More
Most of us remember going to at least one garage... Read More
A recent survey showed that only 28.7% of small business... Read More
I propose this thought on the subject of Franchisee territory... Read More
Why does a good business relationship rely on having some... Read More
In a world full of complications sometimes we overlook the... Read More
It is not surprising that some people may perceive Six... Read More
Why Alliances FailWhen do you know an alliance is falling... Read More
First, we need to define the different kinds of skip... Read More
In this paper, I will:1. provide a framework for creating... Read More
More sales and more profit. Isn't that what you want... Read More
Tammy, a skilled and gifted horticulturist, called me to discuss... Read More
Why should you describe your business to others in 5... Read More
One of the biggest excuses franchisees of home based and... Read More
Washing the exterior of a truck. Sounds easy right? Well,... Read More
Over the years I heard the best way to learn... Read More
same day cleaning service Morton Grove ..While driving through Pennsylvania farmland, you have probably noticed an... Read More
BioTechs even with the latest news had shed over 1000... Read More
So you want to get into the auto detailing business... Read More
As long as you eat and breathe you will stay... Read More
Canon City, Colorado is known for it's 6 Prisons; State... Read More
Are the promoters and consultants destroying the market for Reverse... Read More
My 16 year-old daughter said, "Gee Dad! You look just... Read More
The success of your business is critically dependent on how... Read More
It is not surprising that some people may perceive Six... Read More
Imagine that you have operated a successful franchise business for... Read More
There is a Batting Cages Business for those people who... Read More
If you are a small business you know that you... Read More
Did you know that satisfaction is the number one emotion... Read More
Where do you look for the appropriate alliance?One of the... Read More
How is your pipeline structured?I assume most of you have... Read More
A Private Investigator is a professional trained in the art... Read More
If you discovered the bottom line in your business depended... Read More
Are you thinking of starting a small pressure washer business... Read More
Most small business owners are faced with so many responsibilities... Read More
If you are a small business and qualify to participate... Read More
How far away is the person you need to meet?We... Read More
There are many potential niches for pressure washing companies that... Read More
Your product is dying. With the same inevitability that we... Read More
What is a Virtual Assistant?? A Virtual Assistant is that... Read More
Most businesses accept checks as form of payment for goods... Read More
Small Business |