Lost, but you don't know where you're going.
Lost is a horrible place to feel. You recognise it because Life just doesn't seem to be working. Nothing is satisfying, or at least nothing is satisfying for very long. You look back and you have no idea what you did wrong. Or you may look back and see one wrong turn after another, one wrong choice after another. But when you examine each of those choices in isolation, you know that you made the best choice you could given the circumstances that surrounded you at the time.
The worst of it is, that if someone gave you a magic wand and three wishes, you know, deep down, that no matter what you wished for, as soon as you got over the excitement of change, that you would feel just as lost, just as dissatisfied with life.
You may not realise it but Lost is a Spiritual Problem.
By Spiritual I don't mean religious. By Spiritual I do mean that it is to do with the essence of who you really are, the essence of the love that you are.
Entertain the idea for a moment or two that maybe, just maybe, Life is a Journey with a Purpose. The map of that journey is coded, say, in your DNA, or maybe it's something instinctive or intuitive, but it's there and we can somehow feel it. Then during our formative years we are socialised into looking outside ourselves for answers rather than within. We are taught not to trust our instincts, but to obey rules. Other people always know what is best for us. Be that well-meaning parents, teachers, religious leaders, supervisors, managers, politicians. Some of the people who guide you will have your best interests at heart; some will have their own. Either way you are taught to think for yourself, but only if the solutions you produce are acceptable. When you are intelligent, or curious, or talented, or playful, or thirsty for knowledge about something you have an interest in and you ask your teachers questions that they don't know the answers to, you may be deliberately discouraged from asking 'stupid' questions.
If questions are asked with a genuine thirst for knowledge, then there are no stupid questions.
It is because we are discouraged from listening within that we lose sight of what we are here to accomplish. And when we wander way off the map within - then we are lost. Then nothing seems to work. Then life seems unsatisfying. Then we feel unfulfilled.
The way to get back on the map is to start to look within for answers. Not answers you get from knowledge, but answers you get from gut instinct, answers you get from whether or not something just feels right.
If you want to start the process right now, then look through your memories for something you used to enjoy and brought you pleasure. Something you haven't done for a long time. Then go out and do it. Make a pact with yourself to do something you really enjoy for a little while each day. Something as simple as watching something on tv that makes you laugh, feeding the ducks on the local pond, building a sandcastle even though other people are watching. It doesn't have to be complicated or earth-shattering. Simple pleasure. That's all.
What this does is communicate a very important message to the forgotten part of you. It says, 'I'm ready to come home, so please turn on a light to guide me' and you'll find that magical things start to happen. You'll find your interest in life itself returning. You may also discover that you're in the wrong relationship, the wrong job, the wrong location, and want to make changes and that's fine as long as the changes feel right deep down inside. Use that as your guide from now on and you will soon be back on track.
Michael J. Hadfield MBSCH is a registered clinical hypnotherapist. He channels Himal and advises on Spiritual Problems. You can experience his unique style on a range of hypnosis CD's and tapes at http://www.hypnosisiseasy.com. Here you can also obtain treatment for a variety of problems and explore his approach to health, healing, and hypnosis.
no-contract cleaning service Glenview ..Jacob had sent his family on across the river Jabbok.... Read More
Presently, many of us live in uncertainty. Due to the... Read More
When my dad was nearing the end of his life... Read More
It was in the middle of the night and the... Read More
It's human nature to point a finger when we think... Read More
Although spring is just around the corner, there have been... Read More
On January 13th 1982 an Air Florida flight crashed off... Read More
Do you spend your time working towards that "one day... Read More
Matthew 2:1-12The Visit of the Wise Men1 Now after Jesus... Read More
I would like to tell you the story of a... Read More
Most of life can be said to be bad, or... Read More
The fastest way to raise your frequency is to do... Read More
Am I dreaming? The sign outside the skyscraper reads: "Spiritual... Read More
Yesterday, a marketing guru asked me a question that left... Read More
Ever notice how people dread discussing... Read More
Lonely Song"a box of paints - lament for my da"It... Read More
Jesus said, "No one can see the Kingdom of Heaven... Read More
I have almost died twice in my life. The first... Read More
"Mama, save me!"My six year old son jumped into my... Read More
There is no such thing as a coincidence. Albert Einstein... Read More
Imagine the Bible is a sharp and deadly double-edged sword,... Read More
Matthew 3:4-6 John Baptizes the People4 Now John wore a... Read More
The first gospel written by Matthew,who is Levi, is the... Read More
Within every obstacle there is an equivalent or greater benefit.~Napoleon... Read More
Believe it or not most astral Attacks are not caused... Read More
house cleaning company Glencoe ..An Illuminatus Speaks:You will have to decide if this Illuminatus... Read More
Kundalini Awakening - the sure shot method for awakening of... Read More
Even Pandora and her box come in two versions. In... Read More
The greatest frustration in a Christian's life is not being... Read More
As a Coach and Psychotherapist I have found that the... Read More
I come face to face with self whenever you come... Read More
A magnificent source of life insurance and it's FREE. You... Read More
Many may wonder what is God's will, or how do... Read More
Carl Jung, 20th century psycho analyst and dream researcher, said:... Read More
Everything in the entire universe, big and small, visible and... Read More
In your quest for enlightenment, always ask what's in it... Read More
Among those arriving to the stadium early were two old... Read More
In life, sooner or later, we come to the midnight... Read More
What type of person grabs your attention and motivates you?... Read More
Let's say that you have discovered your purpose but you... Read More
If we don't behave according to a specific church's doctrine,... Read More
Good morning beloved,I always feel a need to let people... Read More
Most of life can be said to be bad, or... Read More
For as many of you as were baptized into Christ... Read More
To a shaman a kachina isn't really a doll or... Read More
With excitement and anticipation I jumped on a plane last... Read More
I want to share with you something that happened to... Read More
Matthew 2:19-23 The Return to Nazareth19 But when Herod died,... Read More
When I was 10 years old my father decided to... Read More
Some may ask what is the true will of God... Read More
Spirituality |