Do you ever get into those moods where you just can't stand to look at clutter anymore and start filling garbage bags? Maybe it's Spring Fever, but I have a deep desire for simplicity lately. Not just in my physical surroundings, but emotionally, professionally, and spiritually too -- I have been "purging" the unnecessary from my life.
This is a difficult process, because while certain things are no longer serving me, they did at one time. There is a bit of nostalgia attached to these things. It's like saying a permanent goodbye to old friends. Many of us tend to cling to the familiar, even if we don't enjoy it or benefit from it anymore. We get stuck in rut after rut, afraid to let go of what we have, because even though it's not great, at least it's ours.
However, the problem arises when we pray for better circumstances, but we don't make room for them. It's like asking the universe to fill our glass with sweet lemonade when it's already crammed full of sour lemons. We need to remove the lemons, wash out the glass, and then specify exactly what we want that glass to be filled with. We've all heard the phrase, "nature abhors a vacuum." This works on a spiritual and emotional level too. When you eliminate the clutter from your surroundings (inner and outer), the universe will rush to fill that space. Fill it with what, you ask? That all depends on your intent.
What do you want to create in your life? Give some thought to these areas:
Start with the physical clutter first, as that is one of the easiest problems to remedy, and one that often causes us to feel confused and stagnated. Go through your house one room at a time and be ruthless in your cleaning. Toss out anything you don't need, and neatly file away things you must keep. Be honest with yourself. If you haven't used something in the past year, what are the chances you'll need it again in the near future?
Once your physical surroundings are cleared, you'll probably find yourself feeling inspired and able to tackle the larger (and more difficult) emotional, financial and spiritual clutter. This is also a process, so be patient with yourself. Take your time, but be just as ruthless as you were with the physical clutter. If it's no longer serving you, say a tearful goodbye and pitch it.
What do you want to replace these things with? It's crucial to be absolutely clear about that before you begin this process. Otherwise you might end up with different, yet still unfavorable, circumstances. Think about the categories above, and ask yourself what you really want to create there. Write it down, and read it to yourself every day. State it aloud to the universe. Ask for it. Affirm it. Welcome it.
Will these new circumstances fall into your lap, fully formed? Some may, yes. Some might require a little elbow grease from you, and that's okay! Just keep working toward what you want. The process is quite enjoyable once you release your fear and immerse yourself in the experience.
Think of it as a sacrificial process. Decide what you really want, and then ask yourself what you're willing to give up to get it. Don't let fear hold you back. Know that what you release will be replaced with something much, much better.
Wendy Betterini is a freelance writer and web designer who strives to motivate, uplift, and inspire you to make your dreams a reality. Visit her website, http://www.wingsfortheheart.com for more positive thoughts to help you on your journey.
move in cleaning service Glencoe ..Enlightenment, which is as varied as each individual's fingerprint, is... Read More
About a month ago I opened up my bible in... Read More
Whenever, we have a task or project to carry out... Read More
If you would like to learn to read tarot cards,... Read More
We've all heard the Golden Rule, "Do unto others as... Read More
I honestly am not sure why this hit me so... Read More
It's human nature to point a finger when we think... Read More
We often forget that we are human beings first, and... Read More
Seems that everyone who writes to me signs their letters... Read More
"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances,... Read More
In the game of billiards there are two things you... Read More
Back in 1992, Jack Nicholson and Tom Cruise co-starred in... Read More
It was said that Caesar Augustus one night consulted his... Read More
Excerpt from The Journey That Never Was: a guide to... Read More
Did we just overlook the amount of love that God... Read More
Originating in what is now modern India; Tantra is at... Read More
No, I have never seen a fairy, an angel, nor... Read More
Let me say that marketing can be a corrupting experience.... Read More
As we walk these halls of Life viewing the world... Read More
You will become as great as your dominant aspiration...If you... Read More
John Eldredge writes in his book Waking the Dead, "God... Read More
In our fast paced society we often want everything done... Read More
I am deeply drawn to the above Irish Blessing.This blessing... Read More
Who is the more spiritual person? The woman out on... Read More
Have you ever noticed how much our lives resemble a... Read More
disinfecting cleaning services Winnetka ..Excerpt from The Journey That Never Was: a guide to... Read More
Feeling restless? Is part of you calling out for change,... Read More
Burn out, it can happen to anyone. Some of the... Read More
There is light at the end of the tunnel, but... Read More
In the responsibility we have as Christians, we are displayed... Read More
The magic of the tarot was obvious to me the... Read More
Did you ever see something go wrong around you and... Read More
Originating in what is now modern India; Tantra is at... Read More
... Read More
If you spend a hundred bucks and buy the right... Read More
I would like to tell you the story of a... Read More
An Introduction to MatthewSETTINGHave you ever been promised something wonderful,... Read More
You are a dual being. Part eternal spirit and part... Read More
Stress is amazingly persistent, even seductive. We get used to... Read More
Let's take a look at all these aspects. The bible... Read More
James 1:23-24Anyone who listens to the word but does not... Read More
About a month ago I opened up my bible in... Read More
Tarot card reading delves into an individual's psyche and thus... Read More
Today we do not experience great manifestations of God as... Read More
Many people are awakening today to the idea that the... Read More
The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.... Read More
Perhaps one of the most wonderful assertions that can be... Read More
I do not want curiosity seekers, who come for a... Read More
Not going to church has the advantage of having free... Read More
Ok, let's start with the amazing story of Robbie and... Read More
Spirituality |