?And holding it way down inside you like an old sponge? Be careful. Just like an old sponge that's held its liquid a little too long, we may start to get stinky in a day or two. I'm referring to "soaking up" all that wonderful information that comes to us mainly through our televisions, radios and computers. Information that is then refortified and nourished through conversations with our friends or relatives.
It's unfortunately a fact of life. Every minute of every day, the media presents "news" that is frequently disturbing. Coverage of terrorist acts, wars, airline crashes, natural disasters ? all kinds of information that show, sometimes in graphic detail, the tragic events of our world and the how they are impacting the lives of our fellow man. As I write this, the TV is blanketed with video footage, stories, commentary, interviews and speculation related to the aftermath of hurricane Katrina. The devastation is truly mind-boggling.
Here's the problem. Many of us humans have a tendency to become over-focused on these events. For some strange reason, beyond a reasonable desire to be informed, we find ourselves sitting in front of our televisions or our computers viewing, listening to and reading everything we can about the current "terrible event". We are "soakin' it up"!
The unfortunate result is that we soon start to feel the negative emotions associated with our current focus. Don't get me wrong. It's normal ? and good ? to empathize ? to feel compassion toward those people who are experiencing tough times. That's just a nice expression of our love toward our fellow man. It's not good for us personally however, to dwell on the negatives ? to continually shove this stuff into our little brains to ferment into mind sludge. Whether we consciously realize it or not, it won't take long for our bodies to respond to this mental goo. We may find that we're not feeling quite as well as we did a few days ago. We may find it harder to deal with the pressures of our personal lives. We may notice that our patience level has dropped somewhat ? that we're now kind of cranky and out of sorts. Whatever the effect, it's our body's normal reaction to a bombardment of negatives.
So here's a suggestion. If you find that you've been spending a lot of time in front of your TV or computer soaking up negatives - and you are having a tendency to "feel" the emotions associated with this mental input, take a break from it. Switch to the cartoon channel, watch a comedy video, take a walk, bathe the dog, read a book, work on your stamp collection, play with your kids, mow the lawn, go to the mall ? anything that will divert your attention away from the yucky stuff and more toward those things you enjoy doing. Give your mind a healing dose of positives. Trust me ? you'll feel better?
Gene Simmons, through NuPathz.com, provides an easy reading self-help blog, articles, quotations, thoughts and links along with affordable self-help and self improvement books & materials - all designed to help folks find the road to a more enjoyable lifestyle, to pass on some of life's "secrets for survival" in a chaotic world & offer a few smiles along the way. It's a down-to-earth, simple approach to discovering a better life. You can visit Gene at http://www.nupathz.com/
Batchtown Chicago prom limo .. Lockport Chicago limo O’HareModern stress is habitual, and is something that the vast... Read More
I just got through reading some troubling news in the... Read More
In a recent CMA survey of 2251 physicians, over 45%... Read More
This is the time for daydreaming about your annual vacation.... Read More
Positive self-esteem is very important for our general health and... Read More
When September rolls around, does it generally hit you like... Read More
Q: We recently had someone come to our company to... Read More
My work often deals with proactive, preventive means to Overcome... Read More
If you have never tried combining your breathing exercises with... Read More
In order to free ourselves from the pain of anger... Read More
First, let's make a distinction between pressure and stress. We... Read More
Have you ever listened to someone, perhaps even to your... Read More
To be a safe and predictable person for those around... Read More
Stress affects different people in different ways, but affect them... Read More
Is your stress level higher than it should be? Are... Read More
* The material presented in this article is provided for... Read More
Q. Help! I moved from the Dallas to Denver. I... Read More
It is very true that, unfortunately, many people look to... Read More
The best way to reduce your stress is to really... Read More
Punch a pillowScream into a pillowTurn on your favorite music... Read More
Part 1: Recognize the importance of family stress managementJoe and... Read More
Everyone needs successful stress management techniques. Easy to learn and... Read More
Q. I've suffered a few setbacks and disappointments in the... Read More
One of the best ways to relieve yourself from the... Read More
The Problem You don't need me to tell you how... Read More
shuttle from Midway Munster are ..Do you have the desire for a stress free life?... Read More
Why is it that some people become totally stressed when... Read More
Whether we are at work, traveling, or at home, we've... Read More
Stress, America's #1 health problem, is a leading cause of... Read More
1. The Law of EveryoneIt is not neccessarily wrong to... Read More
* Play Romane's stress control seminar recordings, and read "The... Read More
We all know that stress levels in the workplace are... Read More
In these times when companies are constantly down-sizing and right-sizing... Read More
When September rolls around, does it generally hit you like... Read More
The Problem You don't need me to tell you how... Read More
We are not designed for long term stress.It causes us... Read More
In our article about Exercise & Stress, we looked at... Read More
I came out of a nightmare 5-year period of anxiety... Read More
Workplace stress is on the rise and it's costing corporate... Read More
"Slow down, you move too fast, you've got to make... Read More
Statistics show that all of us experience stress at one... Read More
You probably think I'm wacko, but it's true - stress... Read More
In his book, The 22 Non-Negotiable Laws of Wellness, author... Read More
Part 1: Recognize the importance of family stress managementJoe and... Read More
Ask a hundred different people how to deal with stress... Read More
?And holding it way down inside you like an old... Read More
If you live in the early part of the twenty-first... Read More
We are currently living in a capitalist society where money... Read More
Stress seems to have become a constant factor in today's... Read More
Seventy-five percent of all our problems ? both emotional and... Read More
Stress Management |