Looking for mindfulness? Who ya gonna call?
Try dialing M.
It's easy to be mindful. It's just hard to remember to be mindful. That's why it's so important to pick our triggers.
Here's a great trigger for mindfulness--the letter M. It's soothing to say: "Mmmmmmm." Add an H and you're thinking: "Hmmmmm." Add an O and you're chanting: "Ommmmmmm." It's hard to go wrong with M.
Okay, but in the course of your day, with all the M-words you hear, say and see, how can you possibly remember to be mindful each time? You can't. That's why you need to choose ONE M for your mindfulness trigger, and here's the perfect one: the McDonald's Golden Arches.
No, really. Think about it. You've already got your own ideas about McDonald's. Maybe you love McDonald's food. Maybe you appreciate the convenience of a drive-thru breakfast when you're on the road. Maybe you hate its corporate identity. Maybe you've seen "Super-Size Me" and all you can think about is poor Morgan Spurlock getting hypertension in his month-of-McDonald's-food experiment. Maybe you feel guilty that you like McDonald's food. Maybe you feel upset that you feel guilty. Whether you love to hate McDonald's or hate to love it, those golden arches are a complex trigger. It's time for a little piggybacking--intentionally superimposing a new concept on an already loaded one.
Here's how it works: The first time each day that you see the McDonald's Golden Arches--the sign itself, the logo on a paper bag, an image on a television commercial--simply say, "I am mindful." That's it.
No need to spin your stories. You don't have to get involved in any mental arguments. There's no reason to get caught up in any emotion. Just use it as a trigger to be mindful.
By saying this phrase--"I am mindful"--you are actually starting a complex process in your brain. You are creating a powerful link to a visual image, and taking control of what it does for you. You are building a self-fulfilling prophecy--if you notice the golden arches, then you are indeed mindful. Since being mindful is not something you normally associate with McDonald's, it serves as a sort of balancing mechanism. Because the only emotion associated with mindfulness is a calm sense of paying attention, you can strip McDonald's of its "good" and "bad" properties and just note it without judgment.
This is what mindfulness is all about. By picking a trigger that is ubiquitous, you are automatically giving yourself plenty of opportunities to include this brief mindful moment in your day.
You will find that you will begin to be mindful every time you see the Golden Arches. That might expand to other images of your choice--the Coca-Cola logo, the Disney logo, Starbucks, whatever. Choose something you can't avoid, and take advantage of it.
Take comfort in taking control of your mind.
Mmmmmm. I'm lovin' it.
Maya Talisman Frost is a mind masseuse offering specialized mindfulness training in Portland, Oregon. She teaches eyes-wide-open ways to get calm, clear and creative. To subscribe to her free weekly ezine, the Friday Mind Massage, visit http://www.massageyourmind.com
no-contract cleaning service Des Plaines ..Writing down our thoughts and feelings, as in keeping a... Read More
For those of you who have been living in a... Read More
Are you looking for stress relief? No drugs, no meditation?... Read More
When we think about stress in the workplace, we usually... Read More
1. Take a relaxing bath. Add music, candles and a... Read More
Stress and anxiety can prematurely age our mind and body.... Read More
The moment I read the story I'm about to share... Read More
My grandmother, a feisty and athletic woman in her younger... Read More
Why Stress Management programmes don't work?It seems that every week... Read More
Rhodiola Rosea is the latest natural remedy to join the... Read More
The United Nations declares workplace stress to be a worldwide... Read More
Syndicated columnist Dale Dauten recently wrote, "One of life's great... Read More
Whenever we think of 'stress', negative thoughts come into our... Read More
Q. So many times in my life, I seem to... Read More
"Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into... Read More
Amazing thing, overwhelm!You don't usually see it coming. It just... Read More
Imagine going through your whole life in the constant fear... Read More
Question 1"How do I get more time to play?"Answer: Schedule... Read More
Panic.Heart racing. Palms sweating. Breathing rapid and shallow. Mouth dry.... Read More
Do you get out of your car with a queasy... Read More
Every day we are faced with a situation where our... Read More
Often, in today's fast paced world, we forget to take... Read More
No need to go spend money at a spa! There... Read More
Why do we resist change? As the saying goes, the... Read More
"When you breathe, you inspire. When you do not breathe,... Read More
bathroom cleaning service Lake Forest ..In a hectic world, it's all too easy to reach... Read More
For those of you who have been living in a... Read More
These days, when people have become so conscious about what... Read More
Perhaps you've heard of the 80/20 rule, but don't know... Read More
There are times in every person's life when things do... Read More
Imagine driving down the road. You are driving with a... Read More
Q. I've been told that I need to learn from... Read More
Learning methods of stress elimination is a vital skill in... Read More
Genuine enthusiasm...real feeling of accomplishment...sense of satisfaction and fun. Welcome... Read More
Defending your point of view can use up a lot... Read More
I learned a valuable lesson recently. A short while ago,... Read More
Governements and businesses have regularly highlighted the costs of stress... Read More
Have you ever said the words, "This job/my life is... Read More
In the fast-paced world that we live in today, it... Read More
So many of us live a stressful life. Unfortunately, when... Read More
Several studies, including one of medical students around exam time,... Read More
If there was a way of relaxing quickly and easily... Read More
Q: We recently had someone come to our company to... Read More
Part 1: Recognize the importance of family stress managementJoe and... Read More
I recently received this e-mail message about stress management (author... Read More
This anger management Practice draws on the dual wisdom of... Read More
Let's face it! The majority of our time is either... Read More
No need to go spend money at a spa! There... Read More
Do you get frustrated with your spouse, your kids, your... Read More
The main problem in a down economy is that workplaces... Read More
Stress Management |