If there was a way of relaxing quickly and easily in any situation would you want to know what it is?
Ancient cultures knew this secret, and followers of Hawaiian Huna used it to access altered states. In more recent times martial artists used it as a way to develop relaxed alertness, and today photoreaders use it to relax before reading books at speeds of 25,000 words per minute.
What is the secret? It has to do with how you use your eyes!
Pick a spot on the wall straight ahead and a little above eye level. Now continue to look at that spot with soft focus and after a few moments you will notice that the room seems to become fuzzy as you develop tunnel vision. This tunnel vision goes hand in hand with the worry, stress and anxiety you feel when you get fixated on getting what you want when you are under pressure.
If only you could snap out of that tunnel vision when it clouds your judgment then you could be more relaxed when you choose to be. You can in a moment if you know how to access your peripheral vision.
How to access your peripheral vision:
1. Pick a spot on the wall in front of you, slightly above eye level.
2. Extend your field of vision, little by little, to take in more of what you can see to the left and right. Continue like this until you are aware of what you can see out of the corner of your eyes on either side.
3. Let your awareness go even further. Use your sense of space to guide you all the way around behind you through 360 degrees.
When you stay in peripheral vision for a few minutes, you will notice that your breathing tends to slow down and even become deeper; the muscles of your face may have relaxed; and even the rest of your body may feel heavier and more relaxed.
When you use your peripheral vision your nervous system seems to automatically calm your body, mind and emotions.
4 Return to normal everyday awareness by letting your vision return to normal.
When you are speaking to a group or even to a large audience, accessing your peripheral vision is a valuable skill. It will let you relax immediately while also allowing you to see your entire audience and any small movements, consequently you can be more aware of reactions to your message.
Which do you prefer, tunnel vision with stress or peripheral vision with relaxation? The choice is yours. To have a choice when it matters you need to practice accessing your peripheral vision at will. Then the next time you feel anxious, scared or tense in front of other people you will be able to quickly and easily access your natural state of relaxation.
About The Author
Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert.Would you like a free weekly ezine full of practical tips for communicating at your best under pressure? All new subscribers get a free ebook with powerful strategies for being at your best. To subscribe send a blank email to: abolishshynesstoday-subscribe@topica.com
car service from Midway Burlington .. Lockport Chicago limo O’HareAre you a "worry wart?" Is that term familiar to... Read More
Seventy-five percent of all our problems ? both emotional and... Read More
What part of no don't you understand? - Bumper stickerThe... Read More
One of the best ways to relieve yourself from the... Read More
There are two types of anxiety:*Situational *Existential.Most of us experience... Read More
"Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into... Read More
When was the last time that you truly took a... Read More
Did you know that more than half of our adult... Read More
* The material presented in this article is provided for... Read More
... Read More
Are you a person who has a keen imagination, a... Read More
Syndicated columnist Dale Dauten recently wrote, "One of life's great... Read More
Learning methods of stress elimination is a vital skill in... Read More
The Rule of BalanceThere is more to life than work.... Read More
Adversity is an unavoidable part of life. Death of a... Read More
Quote of the week"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." Leonardo da... Read More
Aromatherapy is very therapeutic when it comes to healing emotional... Read More
One of the best ways to combat stress and depression... Read More
One question that is not asked enough by people under... Read More
Fear, and its accompanying seriousness, causes our suffering. Fear restricts... Read More
Q. I wonder if you could help me with a... Read More
When was the last time you took a day just... Read More
"Slow down, you move too fast, you've got to make... Read More
Stressed? Relax Right Now with 5 Super-Simple Stress-BustersStressed-out? Don't know... Read More
It's no secret that we women, by virtue of our... Read More
Granger limo Chicago ..Looking for mindfulness? Who ya gonna call?Try dialing M.It's easy... Read More
With almost 50% of workers complaining that their jobs are... Read More
Panic.Heart racing. Palms sweating. Breathing rapid and shallow. Mouth dry.... Read More
Managing stress is not easy if you don't have the... Read More
What would you say if I told you I know... Read More
Loneliness and separation are the real illness of our times.... Read More
Most humans experience unexpected setbacks which can cause huge stress... Read More
Feeling stressed out lately? Don't worry, there is a simple... Read More
Stress is often seen as being unhealthy, but for some... Read More
If you find symptoms of anxiety disorder in any of... Read More
Of all the forms of stress in today's world, computer... Read More
At what age does the benefit of play cease? Child... Read More
Q. So many times in my life, I seem to... Read More
We all know what it feels like to have our... Read More
While free-lancing for business magazines, I was assigned to write... Read More
Learn to have healthy relationships:This subject could fill an entire... Read More
It has long been suggested that "music soothes the savage... Read More
Most of us lead busy lives, trying to successfully juggle... Read More
When we think about stress in the workplace, we usually... Read More
In our article about Exercise & Stress, we looked at... Read More
Let's face it. If you are stressed, agitated and flitting... Read More
Do you feel stress at work? Do you carry your... Read More
We all know that stress levels in the workplace are... Read More
We've all been there, right? We find ourselves living with... Read More
In a recent CMA survey of 2251 physicians, over 45%... Read More
Stress Management |