I came out of a nightmare 5-year period of anxiety and depression and I did it without taking any drugs. What frustrated me is that despite advances in understanding as to why people become stressed, depressed and anxious, sufferers are still told numerous myths about what causes their illness.
This raises an important issue: How can people rid themselves of the pain of these illnesses if they don't know what is at the root cause? Surely, if progress is to be made, understanding must come first? Well in this article, I'm going to bust the myths and reveal what, EXACTLY, is at the root of these illnesses!
The first myth I want to bust is that a period of serious illness can cause you to become depressed. This could be anything from a nasty virus which confines you to bed for a month or something far more serious such as loss of a limb, cancers, injury, heart attack to name but a few.
None of these illnesses can cause depression, anxiety or stress. It's very easily proven. Because millions of people suffer from serious illnesses each and every year but only around 20% of them will develop mental illness. If illnesses cause mental breakdown, EVERYONE who becomes seriously ill will enter into an episode of depression, anxiety or stress. They don't. Why?
Similarly, we can assign the same explanation to traumatic experience. This could be death of a loved one, loss of a job, divorce or moving house for example. Again, every single one of us will experience traumatic times such as these in our lifetime. Yet not everybody enters into a mental illness, even amongst people who have suffered extreme trauma. So we can discount traumatic experience as being at the root cause.
Next on my bust-list is genetics. This is another frequently given reason as to why people suffer from stress, depression or anxiety. But it's completely untrue. There is no proven link between genetics and these illnesses. In fact, rather than genetics, learned behavior from family members who suffer themselves is the only real link to a family-inherited disposition to stressful illness.
I've saved the most widely accepted myth until last and I'll bet my bottom dollar this is the myth you are not just familiar with but believe to be at the cause of your illness. This is the reason given by the medical community and which has spawned a $12 billion drugs industry to combat it. The myth I'm referring to is of course depletion in neurotransmitters ? the so-called "chemical imbalance".
Neurotransmitters are "happy chemicals" which help to regulate our moods. So, if levels are low, we feel low. To boost these levels, powerful antidepressant drugs are prescribed to sufferers. Sure, they boost levels. But let's ask a question:
Are low levels of neurotransmitters a cause or a symptom?
Well, every single human being on this earth right now will experience many occasions in their lives when things go wrong, when bad things happen, when times are trying ? in short, times when they won't be their usual happy selves. Now, during these times, their levels of "happy chemicals" will drop, and life will seem a bit of an effort. So, does this mean that everybody on the planet will descend into an episode of stress, depression or anxiety? Of course not!
And do we just wake up one day and feel depressed because the levels of neurotransmitters has "dipped below the critical level?". No. Because that would mean we'd wake up one day and feel great because the level has risen above the critical point. You know this just doesn't happen, even after taking antidepressants.
What's interesting to note is that when we are in an episode of mental turmoil, we also experience physical pain, we cannot sleep or we sleep too much and the feeling of overwhelming exhaustion is also present. But if a chemical imbalance in our brain is at the root, how come you experience physical pain in your legs, arms, and more commonly, your back?
You can see that this is too simple an explanation. This is borne out by the fact that 70% of people who take antidepressants will descend into second and even third episodes of mental breakdown if they stop taking the drugs. This is because antidepressants treat ONE of the SYMPTOMS of mental illness ? depleted levels of neurotransmitters.
It's nearly time for me to say adios, but before I do, I will reveal what, EXACTLY, is at the root cause of mental breakdown. It is all down to flawed modes of thinking. Because the only difference between people who experience an episode of mental illness and those who don't is all down to flawed perceptions, assessments, explanations and habits performed by sufferers
The following example will describe this more clearly:
Two people suffer the death of a parent. One is absolutely distraught and finds it very difficult to cope and descends into a depressive episode. The other, although sad at the loss, is coping and doesn't descend into depression. The only difference lies IN THE WAY THEY MAKE SENSE OF WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO THEM. The actual event has no meaning by itself. The meanings only lie within the minds of the individuals affected.
To beat mental illnesses such as anxiety, stress and depression, what's needed is to learn the powerful and effective mental skills ? modes of thinking ? used by people who don't become stressed, depressed or anxious no matter what happens to them and which stop these illnesses dead in their tracks. Once you learn them, you will rid yourself of the pain once and for all.
Something a bottle of prozac will never achieve.
Chris Green is the author of the new book "Conquering Stress", a special program which will show you how to conquer stressful illnesses such as depression, anxiety, panic and worry permanently and without taking powerful drugs. You can learn more about this new book and purchase it at http://www.conqueringstress.com
efficient cleaning crew Lake Forest ..If you have recently lost health insurance coverage through your... Read More
?And holding it way down inside you like an old... Read More
According to the StressPulse survey by ComPsych Corporation completed at... Read More
Burt Reynolds revealed his vulnerable side when he realized he... Read More
Learning methods of stress elimination is a vital skill in... Read More
Have you ever considered sewing a handbag as an act... Read More
Stress is amazingly persistent, even seductive. We get used to... Read More
Work related tensions, personal issues and abnormal lifestyles are the... Read More
1. The Law of EveryoneIt is not neccessarily wrong to... Read More
Living in our world today can be very stressful. While... Read More
Q:We recently had someone come to our company to talk... Read More
Why is it that some people become totally stressed when... Read More
The right amount of stress can be good for you,... Read More
According to the Australian Council of Trade Unions' (A.C.T.U.) 1997... Read More
Today's workplace produces plenty of stress. Life's little hassles mount... Read More
There are many kinds of daily grinds. In the U.S.... Read More
Where does stress really come from? Is there any simple... Read More
My son was watching a Richard Scarry video this morning... Read More
I am worried. I have been biting my nails for... Read More
Among the hardest parts of living in the modern world... Read More
Q: What is Stress?A: Very basically it is the physical,... Read More
10 Ways to Monitor Corporate Stress LevelsGood military leaders work... Read More
You probably think I'm wacko, but it's true - stress... Read More
Stress is normal. Stress is OK. Stress is the same... Read More
The World Health Organization calls stress "the health epidemic of... Read More
green cleaning service Deerfield ..The number one most popular issue that users of a... Read More
Genuine enthusiasm...real feeling of accomplishment...sense of satisfaction and fun. Welcome... Read More
Do you get frustrated with your spouse, your kids, your... Read More
26 ways to minimize and manage the unhealthy effects of... Read More
At what age does the benefit of play cease? Child... Read More
CHICAGO - According to a recent article in the September... Read More
Have you ever listened to someone, perhaps even to your... Read More
You can learn a lot by watching children playing. There... Read More
If you are an anxiety and panic sufferer, then you've... Read More
Many people recognise the warning signs that stress may be... Read More
Author and speaker H. Stephen Glenn has said,"In terms of... Read More
Everybody deals with fear and anxiety, however some people have... Read More
Whenever we think of 'stress', negative thoughts come into our... Read More
Do you have the desire for a stress free life?... Read More
We've all been there, right? We find ourselves living with... Read More
A stressless lifestyle? That's very easy to say. Yet it... Read More
Take a moment to think about the week that just... Read More
"Smash!" It was a sunny autumn Saturday. My cousins and... Read More
Meditation, relaxation and visualisation are the standard recommendations for reducing... Read More
Have you been feeling so stressful and almost losing your... Read More
How much attention is paid to one of the biggest... Read More
We wonder how many of you might recognise this scenario?... Read More
No this is not related to praying, this is how... Read More
Recently I completed some new workshop engagements in addition to... Read More
Preparing for sleep the night before is the place to... Read More
Stress Management |