Stress is often seen as being unhealthy, but for some it is the very key to their success.
What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word "stress"? It may be something like, jam-packed schedules, loads of responsibilities, piles of work, trying to balance work and home, or just struggling to make ends meet.
These may seem like very negative characteristics of stress, but image a life without any stress at all. You might be thinking, oh how nice, a perfectly stress-free life. Perfectly stress free would actually be someone that is in a coma. It just doesn't exist. The truth is we all need a certain amount of stress in our lives in order to be challenged and find fulfillment. Stress drives us to solve problems and to be creative and inventive. It also entices our curiosity and encourages us to seek out new opportunities and new friendships.
Recent studies have shown that persons such as top executives with high pressure jobs, who are seen as being extremely stressed, are actually incredibly fulfilled individuals. Many live happy healthy lives even as they reach old age. This type of person may feel a great sense of control over their life and has learned how to channel their stress into something positive which leaves them feeling exhilarated by their accomplishments.
On the other hand, many people do not feel this same sense of control over their lives, especially when it comes to their jobs. When their stress is not channeled into something positive, it is internalized and implodes into illness. Stress has been found to be an underlying factor in everything from heart disease to skin problems.
If you find yourself internalizing your stress, here are a few tips to help you learn how to channel your stress into something constructive:
1. First, take a mental inventory and write down everything that is causing you stress.
2. Study your list carefully and identify any fears that are masked behind your stresses. Fear is often a deep underlying source of stress. Identifying what you are afraid of, will makes it easier to face your fear in the eye and conquer it. Some examples of underlying fears would be, the fear of failing, the fear of not having money, the fear of uncertainty, or the fear of rejection. This part may take a lot of soul searching but it is imperative that you identify your fears, because you can't face them if you don't realize what they are.
3. Set a list of long term and short term goals on what you would like to accomplish in your life.
4. Study your list of goals, and identify which of your fears are holding you back.
5. Take action! Channel all that stress into finding ways to accomplish your goals! Be persistent and don't give up! If your stress is not being happy with your job, identify why you are not happy and why you aren't looking for a new one. What do you fear? If your fear is not being able to find another job, have faith in yourself and at least try! Channel your stress into improving your skills, writing resumes, and networking with people. It may not happen overnight, but by channeling your stress towards accomplishing your goals, you will be keeping that stress from being internalized to the point that you explode.
By focusing on ways to put your stress into positive action, you will be teaching yourself to be one of those lucky individuals that are able find fulfillment by turning their stress into success.
Deborah Abdulla came from a position as a Human Resources Manager from an Oil and Gas Company in Houston, Texas. By using her own techniques, she faced her fears and transformed her life by moving halfway across the country to Nevada, and started a successful "green" business which can be found at http://www.indigo-daisy-shack.com
limo prices to midway Crystal Lake west of Randal .. Lockport Chicago limo O’HareHave you been feeling so stressful and almost losing your... Read More
* Play Romane's stress control seminar recordings, and read "The... Read More
It is no secret that stress and related disorders are... Read More
Have you ever said the words, "This job/my life is... Read More
For those who are suffering from stress, just about the... Read More
Q. So many times in my life, I seem to... Read More
"Do you want to be a lump of coal or... Read More
We all know what it's like coming home from a... Read More
1) Create the life you desireTwo of our most underdeveloped... Read More
I hope by reading this article you will see the... Read More
According to the StressPulse survey by ComPsych Corporation completed at... Read More
Too much driving, too much shopping, too much rushing around,... Read More
In my experience, most of us spend a lot more... Read More
It is an inescapable fact, we live in a stressful... Read More
What is Stress?Stress may be defined as the three-way relationship... Read More
Life is funny.Throughout the day, there are plenty of humorous... Read More
Whenever we think of 'stress', negative thoughts come into our... Read More
While free-lancing for business magazines, I was assigned to write... Read More
In a hectic world, it's all too easy to reach... Read More
What do you think of when you see that word?... Read More
Many people recognise the warning signs that stress may be... Read More
Did you ever feel like your "get-up-and-go" got up and... Read More
Fear, and its accompanying seriousness, causes our suffering. Fear restricts... Read More
Marshal John Kruger acted by Arnold Schwarzenegger (who else) in... Read More
One question that is not asked enough by people under... Read More
taxi o'hare Auburn ..We wonder how many of you might recognise this scenario?... Read More
Have you been feeling so stressful and almost losing your... Read More
Q. So many times in my life, I seem to... Read More
Don't let stress wear you down. Next time you are... Read More
Feeling stressed out lately? Don't worry, there is a simple... Read More
If you have never tried combining your breathing exercises with... Read More
We all have it; we live with it daily: stress.... Read More
You can learn a lot by watching children playing. There... Read More
Statistics tell us that more people have migraine headaches on... Read More
Among the hardest parts of living in the modern world... Read More
But how can this happen to someone?Let's concentrate on how... Read More
What is Stress?Stress may be defined as the three-way relationship... Read More
Meditation, relaxation and visualisation are the standard recommendations for reducing... Read More
Do you worry all the time?Do the following symptoms bother... Read More
1. The Law of GiftsRichard Bach, author of "Illusions" says... Read More
This anger management Practice draws on the dual wisdom of... Read More
After a stressful day as a computer programmer, Jim pulled... Read More
Modern stress is habitual, and is something that the vast... Read More
File this one under the category of "watch your language."The... Read More
When I pay attention, I clearly see the arresting ways... Read More
Learning methods of stress elimination is a vital skill in... Read More
Burt Reynolds revealed his vulnerable side when he realized he... Read More
Life is funny.Throughout the day, there are plenty of humorous... Read More
Do you feel tense and anxious at work? Do your... Read More
Have you ever listened to someone, perhaps even to your... Read More
Stress Management |