Why Stress Management programmes don't work?
It seems that every week there's yet another report telling us how serious the problem of Stress is becoming ? how many working days are lost (anything between 6.5 million and 90 million days depending on whose report you read), how much it costs industry, what percentage of workers experience Stress, and so on. And despite the publicity, nothing seems to be changing. If anything, Stress seems to be becoming even more widespread, and at an alarming rate.
So why are things getting worse instead of better, and why don't Stress Management programmes seem to work?
From an individual perspective, managing Stress is a bit like getting fit. There are people whose idea of getting fit is to walk down to the bookshop, buy a book on fitness and exercise, take it home and read it? and do nothing. Or even worse, not even walk to the bookshop at all but buy it on the Internet! People can only get fit by exercising ? getting fit means taking action.
It's the same with Stress. Some people think the way to manage Stress is to go to a Stress Management workshop. What they don't realise is that to manage their stress they need to do something different. And why don't people take any action to manage their stress better? Why do they seem to be stuck in Stress?
There can be many reasons, but one of the most common ones seems to be fear of the consequences, that is, fear of how they will be seen by their employers and colleagues. The message that many organisations give out is that "It's not OK to be stressed, and it's certainly not OK to take the steps you need to manage your stress effectively". It's rarely stated explicitly, but it's there in organisational cultures nevertheless.
Another reason is that when people are already stressed, and they then have to think about taking time to exercise or relax, the thought creates more stress. It's yet another task in an already busy lifestyle, and so people are reluctant to make time for it -- even though we know it leads to better health, more effective working and quality of life.
The third reason is that many people make other things more important than their own health and well-being. Bizarre though it may sound, people will put time and effort into meeting their boss's expectations in preference to looking after their own health.
The reality, of course, is that unless we look after ourselves properly as employees the job will never be done properly anyway. So self-management has to be a priority.
Most stress management courses fail because they are "band-aid" solutions. They try to treat the symptoms instead of the underlying causes. To make Stress Management truly effective needs a fundamental shift in attitudes, both in individuals and employers. Employees must begin to put themselves and their health first. And employers need to make it OK for people to say they are stressed and to take proper care of themselves.
Many companies penalise their staff for arriving at work late. But how many companies do you know who penalise their staff for staying late at the end of the working day? One senior manager at a large IT company was seen recently throwing people out of the building at 6pm, telling them to go home and chill out. He recognised the law of diminishing returns ? and realised that if his team were to be effective in their work they needed to have a healthy balance between work and personal life. He not only made it OK for his staff to develop work/life balance ? he made it mandatory!
So many companies claim that "people are our most important asset". If it's true, why are they still stressed?
Rob Mottram and Lichfield Associates offer Work/Life Balance programmes aimed at helping organisations to become stress-resistant. For more information contact Rob Mottram on 01886 833588 or visit http://www.lichfield-associates.com
personalized cleaning services Des Plaines ..This is the time for daydreaming about your annual vacation.... Read More
Where does stress really come from? Is there any simple... Read More
The day wasn't going well already. You know how it... Read More
Marshal John Kruger acted by Arnold Schwarzenegger (who else) in... Read More
Stressed? Relax Right Now with 5 Super-Simple Stress-BustersStressed-out? Don't know... Read More
Author and speaker H. Stephen Glenn has said,"In terms of... Read More
* Play Romane's stress control seminar recordings, and read "The... Read More
Take a moment to think about the week that just... Read More
Do you attack problems and solve them or do you... Read More
This heading may seem like a contradiction in terms. How... Read More
When a great Zen Master returned to his country after... Read More
Seems like more and more they are all around us.... Read More
Imagine driving down the road. You are driving with a... Read More
But how can this happen to someone?Let's concentrate on how... Read More
The pace of life seems to quicken every year. More... Read More
All stress comes from believing a thought that argues with... Read More
CHICAGO - According to a recent article in the September... Read More
Fear, and its accompanying seriousness, causes our suffering. Fear restricts... Read More
This summer, get away, without going away. Take a mini... Read More
Everyone needs successful stress management techniques. Easy to learn and... Read More
Statistics show that all of us experience stress at one... Read More
No need to go spend money at a spa! There... Read More
In my experience, most of us spend a lot more... Read More
Let's face it! The majority of our time is either... Read More
Feeling stressed out lately? Don't worry, there is a simple... Read More
family-safe home cleaners Arlington Heights ..ExcusesWe all have them. It amazes me how creative I... Read More
Do you ever fret? In today's materialistic age, sometimes fretting... Read More
Everyone knows that stress isn't good - that it can... Read More
One of the best ways to combat stress and depression... Read More
Raise your hand if you have ever been rejected by... Read More
Looking for all of the answers in how to manage... Read More
Let's face it! The majority of our time is either... Read More
For those who are suffering from stress, just about the... Read More
Several studies, including one of medical students around exam time,... Read More
We wonder how many of you might recognise this scenario?... Read More
A while back, I was in a minor fender-bender accident,... Read More
One of the dumbest things I have ever done is... Read More
"Slow down, you move too fast, you've got to make... Read More
In the body, the stress response is mediated by the... Read More
There is one sure fire medicine that cures all difficulty... Read More
"I've got too much to do, I've just got too... Read More
Do you have stress in your life?......I know you answered... Read More
These days, when people have become so conscious about what... Read More
Meditation seems to have arrived in the mainstream of late,... Read More
Something the successful business person needs is - lots of... Read More
Many people go through the motions during Christmas. If not... Read More
While free-lancing for business magazines, I was assigned to write... Read More
Is your in-tray or inbox full? I don't normally check... Read More
Today we have more stress in our lives than ever... Read More
One of the best ways to relieve yourself from the... Read More
Stress Management |