You will have the greatest success if you read the first newsletter and take some time to observe your own procrastination patterns. Once you have accomplished that, choose a few of the strategies outlined here. Keep working at it until you understand what you need to do to stop putting things off.
Set Specific Goals
The most effective goals are specific, measurable, and achievable. An example of a good goal is, "I will buy paint on Friday and paint the living room on Saturday." This is better than saying, "I am going to get the house ready to sell."
Set Priorities
Write down all the things that you need to do, and place them in order of importance. The most important tasks belong at the top of your list and the distractions go at the bottom. Start at the top of your list and work your way down.
Organize Your Work
Set up a system for yourself. Prepare a daily schedule and keep it within view during your working time. List the tasks for each day. Check things off as you complete them. When you are working on a project, lay out all of the needed supplies or materials before you begin.
Divide and Conquer
Sometimes a project is overwhelming if you think about all of the work that is involved. Do yourself a favor: Break the activity down into smaller steps and set progress goals for each of the steps. This is especially helpful when you are beginning a writing project, studying for a degree, or building a new set of skills. For example, if you need to write a report, make an outline before you start writing. If you have to clean your house, make your goal to do the first two rooms by 10:00, two more by noon, and two more by 2:00. Check tasks off your outline as you complete them.
Make It a Game
Turn the temptation to avoid working into a challenge. Use your imagination. For example, if you need to study the first five chapters of your history book, pretend that you are a substitute teacher and will need to lecture on the material tomorrow. Take notes and organize the information into an outline that you could speak from. Sometimes changing the frame around a situation makes it more interesting and less of a chore.
Schedule a Small Amount of Time
Tell yourself that you will only spend ten minutes on the task right now, just to get your feet wet. Work on the task for the ten minutes and then choose whether to continue for ten more minutes. Continue doing this until you decide to stop, or when you are finished with the task. If you stop working on the task before it is finished, spend a few more minutes to plan a strategy for the next steps.
When you are tempted to substitute a fun but unimportant activity (such as reading a magazine or watching the weather channel) for an important project (such as finishing pages of your report), make the substitute activity your reward for doing the important task. Do the high-priority job first and reward yourself with the fun activity.
Ward Off Self-Defeating Thoughts
Telling yourself that you are going to do a poor job or even fail can seriously undermine your ability to function. It is important to realize that your negative statements are not facts. Keep your focus on the present moment and the positive steps you can take toward accomplishing your goals. If these thoughts are based on a need for perfection or low self-esteem (described in the "Managing Perfectionism" newsletter), you may want to work on these issues.
Make a Commitment
Make a verbal and written commitment to completing the task or project. Write a contract and sign it. Tell someone about your plans and ask them to follow up with you.
One trainer wanted to create a how-to workbook and market it to other training professionals. After weeks of procrastination, she decided to motivate herself by creating a deadline. She wrote an ad for the workbook and placed it in the professional publication that she knew her colleagues would be reading. When her telephone began to ring with orders for the workbook, she suddenly became very focused.
Remind Yourself
Write notes to yourself and post them in conspicuous places. Leave them where you will see them-on places like the outside of your briefcase, the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, television, your front door, and the dashboard of your car. The more often you remind yourself of what you plan to accomplish, the more likely it is that you will follow through with action.
Reward Yourself
Reinforcement is a very effective way to motivate yourself. When you complete even the most minor task, be sure to acknowledge what you have done. This is especially important in the beginning when you are struggling with procrastination behaviors. After you have mastered these issues and have regained your peak productivity, don't forget to celebrate the completion of the big projects. You worked hard for it and shouldn't take it for granted.
Garrett Coan is a professional therapist,coach and psychotherapist. His two Northern New Jersey office locations are accessible to individuals who reside in Bergen County, Essex County, Passaic County, Rockland County, and Manhattan. Garrett also offers online and telephone coaching and counseling services for those who live at a distance. He can be accessed through http://www.creativecounselors.com or at 201-303-4303.
professional maid services Deerfield ..There have been a lot of really good movies made... Read More
Hold a "progressive" goal party If you have a group... Read More
Critics can destroy or inspire you. Your own self critic... Read More
I prefer to call the challenges, obstacles, side-tracks, and barriers... Read More
When my neighbor's child was about 8, he decided that... Read More
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to be... Read More
Everything you will ever have and accomplish in life will... Read More
Today I feel inspired that I should speak more to... Read More
I receive several emails every week asking me about how... Read More
Every man who accomplishes things sees first in his mind... Read More
A Lifelong Learning Plan is a conscious, continuous engagement in... Read More
e-Learning is doubling yearly. Classes, e-courses, e-books on how-to and... Read More
If you'd like to fulfill your long-held dreams, try a... Read More
So you've bought into the idea that you need to... Read More
Have you ever met people who exude charm and charisma?... Read More
We all want success. You do. So do I. Some... Read More
I bet you want to be wealthy, but somehow the... Read More
Success can easily be compared to the "genie trapped in... Read More
Why do diets end up in gained weight? Why do... Read More
What do you need to have for a successful business?... Read More
I can tell, with 95% accuracy, if you are going... Read More
(1) Climb up from under the limitations of circum?stances and... Read More
An unexamined life is not worth living ? SocratesAll too... Read More
Fear, or negative anxiety, is the modern day bubonic plague,... Read More
Q. My problem is that I have trouble keeping my... Read More
quick home cleaning Lake Forest ..How does an online marketer define success ? There are... Read More
I love the idea of synchronicity.Perhaps it's just part of... Read More
Successful people do not achieve success on their own, they... Read More
In my work with clients, the issue of perspectives comes... Read More
The ultimate expression of life is not a paycheck. The... Read More
Of all the things that can have an effect on... Read More
Why do you need to know your focus when joining... Read More
1. Any work activity, unless initiated at the earliest will... Read More
In the film 'The Rock', Sean Connery takes a dim... Read More
One of the most important aspects of creating success involves... Read More
No one becomes successful by accident. Success requires making a... Read More
Because Not All Skills Are Equal?Public Speaking MasteryHello,Tom Cruise is... Read More
Reggie Yates, a pop song presenter, was singing on 7th... Read More
We were at some friend's house the other day and... Read More
Daddy was a very, very odd little man-possibly a schizophrenic-for... Read More
The most important quality you can ever develop is having... Read More
Whether you are self-employed, whether you are an employee, whether... Read More
Most sports are full of lessons for the discerning. Tennis... Read More
These days success is a hotly debated subject. Nevertheless, people... Read More
Everything we have in life is because of the help... Read More
I want to relate to you a story, READ it... Read More
The sun crept over the horizon and lodged itself above... Read More
1. They are hard working. There is no such thing... Read More
Change is one of the biggest concepts facing today's society.... Read More
In so many areas of life we must always be... Read More
Success |