You're considering a new career, new place to live or new business, retirement, or any other move. You ask, "Will I be happy?" If you remember the old, old song, "What will be" may not be the answer you're looking for.
There are no one-size-fits-all guidelines, but there are five questions that can help you anticipate how you'll enjoy what you get.
1. "Did I choose to make this move or am I being pressured?" When you feel in control, you are most likely to be happy after you make a move. When you feel you have few or no options, begin to explore strategies to regain your power.
2. "Am I moving to or moving from?" We've all been tempted to take a big leap and just leave whatever we'd like to escape. Sometimes the results bring surprising rewards. When you analyze what you want, rather than what you want to leave, you can make more effective decisions about your next career, city and business.
3. "Can I still be me?" I live in a town where many people move specifically for retirement. Many choose the most rural areas of the county, assuming they'll find nirvana when they've left city life behind. And many are miserable because they didn't realize what they needed to be happy ? more stimulation and satisfaction than you can find in the country.
4. "Does my happiness depend on another person or organization?" You move to be closer to your grandchildren ? and they're all grown up. You move for a company ? and your job disappears due to a policy change. You can't prevent all surprises, but you can make contingency plans and create safety nets.
5. "What options will I have three years after I make the move? Five years?" Will you have more opportunities than you do now or will you feel trapped?
There's no way to predict what will happen, whether you turn left or right at the fork in the road. But the odds are something will change in three to five years. You'll be different. Your professional field will be different. Your workplace will be different. And you'll be ready to make another move.
Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D., wrote Making the Big Move (New Harbinger 1999). She works with professionals who are tossing and turning over a career decision and need a coach to help them brainstorm a solution.
Website: http://www.cathygoodwin.com Your Next Move Ezine: http://www.cathygoodwin.com or http://www.cathygoodwin.com with "YNM" in subject line. Contact: http://www.cathygoodwin.com 505-534-4294
No matter what goals and dreams you desire, there's a... Read More
Did you know that your past, present, and future can... Read More
Delegate your life If you're having problems finding the time... Read More
Few books have impacted my perspective on human psychologically and... Read More
"When you talk to yourself, you listen. No matter what... Read More
We all want to improve our top line - our... Read More
Successful people do not achieve success on their own, they... Read More
Fourteen thousand civilised people died when the tsunami hit Andaman... Read More
Many of us have lost sight of what we really... Read More
Bill is a man for the people, of the people... Read More
Step 1: List all the business activities that you complete... Read More
It is often said that the only things in life... Read More
What do you need to have for a successful business?... Read More
Mike, his feet dangling above the city, opened his lunch... Read More
Since belief always precedes action, simply changing your beliefs can... Read More
Make a game out of reaching your goals Go to... Read More
Both the worst and the best of the great achievers... Read More
Lesson 1. Category Well Being Plan to do this.Stop blaming... Read More
Self-change is a personal phenomenon. In order to accomplish it,... Read More
The difference between success and failure is based on behavior.... Read More
I am writing this article to cement two key success... Read More
On March 27th 2005, Oxford won the annual boat race... Read More
What if?you could have it all? 6 Steps to Living... Read More
Do you know what the problem is with asking successful... Read More
Your personal image: It's the most important YOU asset you... Read More
reliable home cleaners Buffalo Grove ..We experience failure directly or indirectly. Here we will come... Read More
Skills or beliefs; this may well be another example of... Read More
Normally a long memory is an advantage but not if... Read More
The story that is being used to illustrate the concepts... Read More
Affirmations are emotionally driven statements of intention and faith that... Read More
(Excerpted from the 1999 Weekend Seminar audio/CD series)Parents, leaders, employers,... Read More
Why everything has to be so hard? What have I... Read More
We all want success in life. We want success in... Read More
Think back to a time in your life when you... Read More
(Excerpted From the 2001 Jim Rohn Millennium Weekend Event -... Read More
I've been coaching for a few years now, and the... Read More
Back from my amazing summer excursion, a month long drive... Read More
I prefer to call the challenges, obstacles, side-tracks, and barriers... Read More
What Makes the Difference?On a warm spring afternoon, fifteen years... Read More
One of the greatest challenges people face when trying to... Read More
Reggie Yates, a pop song presenter, was singing on 7th... Read More
Something For You To Consider?How To Create What You Want... Read More
Start a "round robin" goal letter with others who need... Read More
Wow, what an outrageous claim! Why do I say this?... Read More
I'm going to begin this article by sharing a little... Read More
Have a "Pitch Party" Invite friends and work together to... Read More
Have you ever thought about what makes a superstar? What... Read More
Is it difficult to be professional?I think from my experience... Read More
-- The One Pager Shortcut Series --What are the sharpest... Read More
Driven by cultural imperatives and inner promptings, we drive ourselves... Read More
Success |