Most of my clients had a vision of the contribution they wanted to make when they took their current role. Many of them have been caught up in the unfulfilled demands of the new role and the urgent requirements of each day. After some time, they end each day with less resolve, or less energy to contribute from their personal vision.
Something is wearing them down but they haven't worked out what yet. Somehow the enthusiasm of their initial sense of purpose is reducing. They begin to manipulate themselves, things that were easy at the beginning have become a hard slog.
What has changed?
For most of us we have compromised some deep need to contribute. Contrary to popular belief, our needs are not optional, for us they are deeply held requirements that need to be fulfilled in some way. They are the foundation of our satisfaction and our sense of purpose. In comparison desires or wants are optional, we don't need to do them to be fulfilled, however they can certainly add to our satisfaction.
Example:
My client needed to increase their sales figures. Their analysis showed a fairly homogenous sales team. She thought they needed to diversify their sales team in a certain way to lift their overall results. Consequently, she constantly got involved in the 'on the ground' hiring decisions of her managers. A number of these decisions turned sour within 6 months and required huge amounts of energy to rectify ? both to move on the inappropriate hire and regain the confidence of the manager!
She got confused in delivering the result between working on the big picture and her competence in taking care of the details. She was actually quite a noted visionary but not a 'consciously competent' operator in this area.
Her personal need was to transition from being a competent performer to being a visionary. Both aspects have very different measurement methods and sense of success. She needed to seed the vision to her team of managers so that they could grow and develop the business. Their hiring decisions may well have reflected this vision, however changing the hiring decisions in isolation wasn't working.
Needs:
Needs usually don't arrive with a brass band and flag waving. They sneak up on us. One day we wake up and realize we aren't happy doing what we have been doing any more. Our job role may be past its use by date, or we may be tired out from doing things the same way.
The question isn't what needs to be changed: that is usually very obvious, it is what to change it to! Do we need to change jobs or can we transition to another role within our current job and meeting our now urgent needs? Can the client above become the visionary contributor for their US$2 billion business or do they need to be in a different role to take smaller steps?
Energy and Enthusiasm:
Have you ever noticed that when a project's outcome is clearly defined and assigned it is easy to contribute? Have you noticed that sometimes when you are tired and you begin to work on a task, as you work your energy increases?
When we have a focus that we are committed to, we create the energy to deal with the issues that arise and do the work.
When we have a fuzzy focus and fuzzy commitment to a project, it often takes huge amounts of energy to get things going and keep them going!
Focus creates energy! We need to harness this and have enough energy-creating projects in our days to fund the energy requiring ones enough. This is an external definition and measure of meeting our needs.
What to change to meet our needs:
Most of us have an area of competence we call common sense. It is so obvious to us and so easy that we presume it is also the same for everyone. We get frustrated with those who don't reflect this assumption to us and presume they are 'holding out'.
To meet our needs we need to develop conscious competence with our 'common sense'. Most of us have no language for it, no patience with others about it, and no ability to manipulate the elements to fit the solution to the situation. Hence we have an unconscious competence.
Our job (need) is to develop conscious competence so that we can contribute wisely, develop it in others, recognize their competences and develop those too. These are our needs that we must meet.
From this perspective my client needs to step up and take the visionary contributor role, this will generate enormous amounts of energy if she has good clarity of her purpose! Alternatively she will find it takes more and more energy to run smaller and smaller details in the business and loose her effectiveness.
This article may be reproduced in printed or web format, provided the resource box below is included.
Rosemary Johnston is a professional corporate and personal coach. Working with executives from some of Australia's largest and most successful companies for over 15 years.
Rosemary's new book, "How To Develop Your Leadership Style and Skills to Take Charge of Your Career and Life" is now available to download at her web site. Read about how you can share some of the success Rosemary has had coaching leaders in Australian blue chip companies. http://www.leadershipfirst.com.au
post construction cleaning Deerfield ..Following are a series of questions I needed to ask... Read More
Two weeks ago we took a look at the power... Read More
The gambling instinct is in every man or woman. All... Read More
How do we define success? Webster's dictionary defines success as... Read More
With the end of the year fast approaching, now is... Read More
Building wealth isn't something for the frightened, ignorant, and lost.... Read More
Do you know that there is a formula for attaining... Read More
Our expectations get us into a lot of trouble and... Read More
One of the first things most of us remember hearing... Read More
Affirmations are emotionally driven statements of intention and faith that... Read More
We all want something to look forward to. The best... Read More
I was hired to do some training for a sales... Read More
I was in the gym, pushing my adolescent muscles to... Read More
Human beings are visual creatures. Our imaginations are powerful tools... Read More
Driven by cultural imperatives and inner promptings, we drive ourselves... Read More
I have noticed that though my clients often have created... Read More
Think how often you see a friend or an acquaintance... Read More
FOCUSAs you're building your business, you can choose to win... Read More
McDonald's does it, why shouldn't you? Life is filled with... Read More
The present model of business and career motivation, the one... Read More
The start of a new year is a good time... Read More
It can be great to do something new 'for a... Read More
What if I told you that you could be more... Read More
The most important quality you can ever develop is having... Read More
How does an online marketer define success ? There are... Read More
Airbnb cleaning service Bannockburn ..Becoming successful is not easy. We all get tossed around... Read More
Have you failed before and wished the earth could open... Read More
Why everything has to be so hard? What have I... Read More
You can achieve whatever you want by incorporating the following... Read More
The title of this article also happens to be the... Read More
What is success? As author and speaker Earl Nightingale said,... Read More
It can be great to do something new 'for a... Read More
Sometimes it is better to just get on with doing... Read More
All of us could work on our skills in influencing... Read More
I prefer to call the challenges, obstacles, side-tracks, and barriers... Read More
How can anyone with the brain of a cockroach make... Read More
I did it my way -Frank SinatraWhat is a successful... Read More
What would happen if you lived your life by design... Read More
You must play by the rules. Everything has rules. You... Read More
"I have learned, that if one advances confidently in the... Read More
The other day I went shopping at the local consumer... Read More
People say: "One can't help one's thoughts." But one can.... Read More
Fighter pilots have an awesome responsibility. It takes a unique... Read More
If we hope to achieve any worthwhile goal it will... Read More
When you hear the words "abundance" and "prosperity", what immediately... Read More
Q: Are you a success?A: Its all in how you... Read More
It was one of the worst periods of time in... Read More
OK, so here we are. We've switched the calendars out... Read More
Why do some people end up with boring jobs living... Read More
Does it surprise you that only 400 cokes were sold... Read More
Success |