In my audio program Book Yourself Solid, The 7 Keys To Getting More Clients Than You Can Handle Even If You Hate Marketing And Selling, I focus on the nitty gritty of what to do to get loads of clients but the real key and what I try to deep into is what you need to do for yourself to take action.
I think there are only two reasons for most any business problem:
And, I also think that 90% of all business problems stem from number two. When I say business problems I mean why we dont achieve what we say we want to achieve or why we dont do what we say we want to do.
So, of course, the next question you might ask is why dont we do what we know how to do? And the answer is. we havent built up the self-confidence needed for the goal at hand.
Look learning is easy accumulating knowledge is easy. There are lots of people who know what you need to know and are willing to share the information with you. So, again why arent you doing what you say you want to do? Again, I say not enough self-confidence.
Were born with high levels of confidence in certain areas and not in others. And its different for all of us. But well need different levels of confidence depending on what we want to do with our lives. It takes one level of confidence to give a speech in front of 5 people and another level of confidence to give a speech in front of 500 and again, another level of confidence to speak in front of 5000. So, if youre not working on developing your confidence and thinking bigger about who you are and what you offer the world, you very well may not put yourself in situations where youd have an opportunity to present in front of 5000 people.
There are two very simple things I recommend to solve this profoundly important problem:
First, learn in action. Learning in action is the key to success when venturing into uncharted territory. You cant wait to have all the answers. You certainly dont want to go out in the world half-baked but you dont need a Doctorate in marketing to create awareness for the solutions that you provide or a Masters in public speaking to give a speech.
This is a big problem for many people waiting until they are sure that they have all the info they could possibly have about how to do something before theyll try it. Its just not effective and stems from a lack of self-confidence.
I feel that if you do nothing else as a personal and business building strategy, work on building up your self confidence so youll be able to do everything that you say you want to do.
And second, develop a self-confidence plan. I do affirmations every day. In the morning when I wake up and at night before I go to sleep. Well, actually, I only do them Monday through Friday but that should cover you.
Read Napoleon Hills inspirational classic Think and Grow Rich for a plethora of affirmations that will help you build your self-confidence.
And in closing dont forget to have a mad passionate love affair with yourself. Love, embrace and believe in yourself. I know how realistic it is to become wildly successful. You can totally create an abundant, joyful and prosperous business life if youre willing to do the work.
About The Author
Copyright 2004
(article can be used freely in publications provided article is left in tact and full bio is used. Send courtesy copy to michael@michaelport.com)
Michael Port is on a crusade for the success of solo-professionals and is especially well known for his passion, personality, point of view (and unrelenting sense of humor). Under the banner of Michael Port & Associates, LLC, he provides seminars, keynotes, training programs, coaching and a popular e-zine to solo-professionals, helping them build thriving businesses. His expertise lies in the areas of personal brand identity development, motivation, leadership, performance, teamwork and communication. Michaels mantra: be brave be bold be yourself for profit and fun! michael@michaelport.com
personalized cleaning services Des Plaines ..Hey,Josh here from Investor Wealth Academy sitting 29 stories above... Read More
"When you talk to yourself, you listen. No matter what... Read More
I was at a dinner party the other night when... Read More
Over the years many people have offered their models of... Read More
The ten-year period which followed the stock market crash of... Read More
Want more success in your business or professional life? Here's... Read More
Have you ever wondered why you're not where you want... Read More
Hello everybody and a good day (or night !) to... Read More
Jim Rohn, noted leader and speaker in the personal development... Read More
Your personal image: It's the most important YOU asset you... Read More
Before we can unlock human potential, we need to know... Read More
This past Memorial Day weekend I decided to revisit my... Read More
It was one of the worst periods of time in... Read More
For our family, the Fall is filled with Friday Night... Read More
J. Paul Getty appeared to be incredibly lucky, but it... Read More
In the Greek tale of creation, a Titan (Greek god)... Read More
Periodically re-check and refine (or redefine) your goals It's no... Read More
Self-esteem is very important. It is the way we view... Read More
Many people, it seems, have a fear of money. Does... Read More
No one wants to fail. But when in business you... Read More
You can be a master achiever by developing the same... Read More
Abundance is intangible, spiritual and attracts energy. To attract this... Read More
Imagine that you are in a dimly-lit room. You don't... Read More
My life is a bubble; but how much solid cash... Read More
Management by Objectives, strategic planning, quality, teams, re-engineering. Passing management... Read More
family-safe home cleaners Arlington Heights ..I have written much about how, in order to have... Read More
If that sounds like you, you're not alone. Everyone needs... Read More
Circus trainers used to tie a chain around a baby... Read More
Success isn't all that it's cracked up to be... I'm... Read More
It can be great to do something new 'for a... Read More
Are you getting frustrated because the work you continue to... Read More
I once heard a speaker use the statement, "I have... Read More
This revelation hit me the other day while I was... Read More
I am going to tell you something you already know... Read More
Have you ever had this feeling? You're standing in front... Read More
Since belief always precedes action, simply changing your beliefs can... Read More
A Lifelong Learning Plan is a conscious, continuous engagement in... Read More
(Excerpted From The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan - Pillar... Read More
If you'd like to fulfill your long-held dreams, try a... Read More
Okay, so you've finally made that big decision to start... Read More
Cost is sometimes a difficult term to define. Here, we... Read More
Abundance is intangible, spiritual and attracts energy. To attract this... Read More
When is the best time to prepare for your success... Read More
Consider what it takes to become an undeniable success with... Read More
You have probably heard the term "IQ" many times, and... Read More
The need to be successful. This is the bottom line... Read More
One of the main reasons that may hinder us from... Read More
There are certain laws that when obeyed will bring great... Read More
Everyone wants success.Some people spend their every waking moment pursuing... Read More
Last Thursday evening, I was the guest of a group... Read More
Success |