In my audio program Book Yourself Solid, The 7 Keys To Getting More Clients Than You Can Handle Even If You Hate Marketing And Selling, I focus on the nitty gritty of what to do to get loads of clients but the real key and what I try to deep into is what you need to do for yourself to take action.
I think there are only two reasons for most any business problem:
And, I also think that 90% of all business problems stem from number two. When I say business problems I mean why we dont achieve what we say we want to achieve or why we dont do what we say we want to do.
So, of course, the next question you might ask is why dont we do what we know how to do? And the answer is. we havent built up the self-confidence needed for the goal at hand.
Look learning is easy accumulating knowledge is easy. There are lots of people who know what you need to know and are willing to share the information with you. So, again why arent you doing what you say you want to do? Again, I say not enough self-confidence.
Were born with high levels of confidence in certain areas and not in others. And its different for all of us. But well need different levels of confidence depending on what we want to do with our lives. It takes one level of confidence to give a speech in front of 5 people and another level of confidence to give a speech in front of 500 and again, another level of confidence to speak in front of 5000. So, if youre not working on developing your confidence and thinking bigger about who you are and what you offer the world, you very well may not put yourself in situations where youd have an opportunity to present in front of 5000 people.
There are two very simple things I recommend to solve this profoundly important problem:
First, learn in action. Learning in action is the key to success when venturing into uncharted territory. You cant wait to have all the answers. You certainly dont want to go out in the world half-baked but you dont need a Doctorate in marketing to create awareness for the solutions that you provide or a Masters in public speaking to give a speech.
This is a big problem for many people waiting until they are sure that they have all the info they could possibly have about how to do something before theyll try it. Its just not effective and stems from a lack of self-confidence.
I feel that if you do nothing else as a personal and business building strategy, work on building up your self confidence so youll be able to do everything that you say you want to do.
And second, develop a self-confidence plan. I do affirmations every day. In the morning when I wake up and at night before I go to sleep. Well, actually, I only do them Monday through Friday but that should cover you.
Read Napoleon Hills inspirational classic Think and Grow Rich for a plethora of affirmations that will help you build your self-confidence.
And in closing dont forget to have a mad passionate love affair with yourself. Love, embrace and believe in yourself. I know how realistic it is to become wildly successful. You can totally create an abundant, joyful and prosperous business life if youre willing to do the work.
About The Author
Copyright 2004
(article can be used freely in publications provided article is left in tact and full bio is used. Send courtesy copy to michael@michaelport.com)
Michael Port is on a crusade for the success of solo-professionals and is especially well known for his passion, personality, point of view (and unrelenting sense of humor). Under the banner of Michael Port & Associates, LLC, he provides seminars, keynotes, training programs, coaching and a popular e-zine to solo-professionals, helping them build thriving businesses. His expertise lies in the areas of personal brand identity development, motivation, leadership, performance, teamwork and communication. Michaels mantra: be brave be bold be yourself for profit and fun! michael@michaelport.com
family-safe home cleaners Morton Grove ..The 90/10 secret is incredible! Very few know and apply... Read More
Unfortunately we come into contact with negativity everyday. We can't... Read More
How do you define success?According to the Collins dictionary, success... Read More
Do you still keep that all important 'Inner Spark Alive'?... Read More
I wrote an article on this very subject, with the... Read More
The start of a new year is a good time... Read More
Thoughts are very powerful. An intention held long and hard... Read More
What would one initially think about someone who dropped out... Read More
"Walk away from the 97% crowd. Don't use their excuses.... Read More
Circus trainers used to tie a chain around a baby... Read More
The best way to predict your future is to create... Read More
I call the following seven belief lies of success, taking... Read More
"Fighting to pay the bills is hardly worth it? fight... Read More
Success can easily be compared to the "genie trapped in... Read More
I receive several emails every week asking me about how... Read More
To realize that you determine the outcome of your own... Read More
Are you looking for the secret or magical formula for... Read More
Do you constantly find yourself saying "I can't afford it"... Read More
If we eat too much at home, the public eventually... Read More
I see it happen all too often on the internet... Read More
It is often said that the only things in life... Read More
"Fear Factor" is one of my favorite TV shows. It... Read More
Whenever I'm feeling stuck in a rut, I go out... Read More
They say that if you really want to stretch yourself... Read More
(excerpted from the book Seven Strategies for Wealth and Happiness)Wouldn't... Read More
home cleaning services Wilmette .."Perseverance allows you to get back on track when you... Read More
Since belief always precedes action, simply changing your beliefs can... Read More
What is Optimum Performance? This question raises different responses from... Read More
In earlier generations it was common to keep a diary... Read More
Have you ever noticed when playing a video game, or... Read More
People say: "One can't help one's thoughts." But one can.... Read More
With the long-term trend of protecting employees' individual self esteem... Read More
I always say to my children, as long as you... Read More
Choose "impossible" goals When faced with a hard-to-reach goal, your... Read More
Too often we wait for the 'right time' or 'the... Read More
The First step to success is to think and decide... Read More
There are those out there who would lead us to... Read More
1)Failure is normal.Everyone has faced failure. Some people talk about... Read More
Something For You To Consider?How To Create What You Want... Read More
Wow, what an outrageous claim! Why do I say this?... Read More
If you could choose a cartoon character from your childhood... Read More
Freedom is the deeper meaning, the foundation behind all of... Read More
"I have learned, that if one advances confidently in the... Read More
"One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key... Read More
Most people want to be successful in life. But success... Read More
I've been thinking a lot about what I believe to... Read More
Wealthy people share common traits. That's why they are wealthy.... Read More
I was at a dinner party the other night when... Read More
Sit up straight! You may recall hearing those words as... Read More
After 13 years of being married to the same woman... Read More
Success |