Have you ever had this feeling? You're standing in front of a huge safe; in this safe, is all the wealth, happiness, success, love and health the world could offer. This safe has a combination lock on it and you know all the numbers to open it, except one. :>( Just one lousy number! And, if you knew that one number, you could open the door! What we need is a "safe" bet!
I Don't Have A Clue!
Often the difference between success and failure is a missing ingredient; most of the time, just one. If we only could get our hands on that one number, all our prayers would be answered. And, that's the way it is for most of our endeavors, just one missing number that makes all the difference.
Well, here is what happens most of the time. I don't want to oversimplify this, but let me make an analogy. Let's say you have a project almost complete, you've studied, planned, or pouted, and laid out the slickest dog and pony show even you have ever seen. And, now it's ready for the moment of truth.
You have all the numbers of the combination laid out, but the success button just doesn't seem to work. You have gone through them over and over and the door still won't open.
Is it because you've gotten into something over your head? Nah! How many times have you knowingly tackled something you knew you couldn't do? If we think we can't run with the big dogs, we'll just keep our pretty selves on the porch.
Here's the reason: It's because there is a missing number. But, instead of looking for that missing number, we keep going through the same steps we've already been successful with, hoping that will somehow cause this sucker to work so we can forget about the missing number.
Well, Just Between You And Me And The Fence Post!
We didn't know what to do about the missing combination anyway. So, it would suit us just fine if that missing number would take a hike. Well, I tell you from lots of personal experience, that missing number ain't going to take a hike to make your life easier.
But, one thing that missing number will do; is cause this project to bow to your commands and cause your success to come shinning through. I am firmly convinced that success is easy in everything we attempt. Now don't get all choked up. :>) Although I know it seems to be sometimes impossible during the heat of battle.
I can hear somebody saying to me now; "boy, you are just a few fries short of a happy meal". Stay with me now. Ok, hot shot, why do you say success is easy? Well, what makes it seem so difficult is; we are continually going back through the same steps we discovered that works, and the project is screaming find the final number.
We know something is missing, but we don't know what it is. So, we keep doing the same things over and over pretending the final number doesn't matter hoping for a different result. Someone said; that's the definition of insanity.
Consider this: think about a huge success you have achieved sometime in your life. Think about how difficult it was while you were working on it and before it was completed.
Now, think about how easy it would be right now to accomplish that same task from zero. Piece of cake. Why? Because you now know all the numbers in the combination.
Remember the first time you tried to ride a bicycle? Or, roller skate? Remember how your rear end felt the first few times skating? I bet if you went out today to ride a bicycle you wouldn't fall. Why? Cause you remember what you learned. And, you would do it the same way.
Now, if you retry something that was really difficult in the past, and do it the very same way you did it when it succeeded, it would be just as easy as the first time if you had known all the numbers the first time.
Other Things Being Equal!
Success is not really that hard, it's just sneaky. It's like playing "hide n seek" when you were a kid. And, success is always the one doing the hiding. It won't run from you, but it sure will make you work to find it. And, when you do find it, it will have been like that proverbial snake that was so close all the time it could have bit you.
On the other side of this coin, if you could see yourself going through the exact same strategy the second time around, that you followed the first time around, it would be just as difficult the second time. In fact, it would be an instant replay of the first scenario.
But, don't let the inner voice inside your head talk you into lowering your goals so low that it virtually guarantees success. It is nice to succeed but, that kind of push over success leaves our inner sense of accomplishment feeling as ugly as a mud fence.
Every objective will have a series of combination steps that have to be taken in order to assure success. And, in order to have success guaranteed in all cases, you would have to know all things before you start. How often has that happened for you?
In the process of achieving your objective, you will have thoughts about yourself and you will say things about yourself. Those things will determine your mental attitude. If you have a worthwhile objective think earnestly for the one reason why you can do it, rather than the hundred or so reasons why you can't.
The first and foremost combination number is always this! The right attitude. It amazes me how I ever thought I could succeed at anything in life with a lousy attitude. And, I've learned that to be consistently successful, I have to work on "attitude" more than all the other parts of the goal.
To unlock the combination of success, you must find all the relevant numbers. The whole combination is solved much smoother when the number one combination is right.
Do This Bright And Early!
If you want to see major failures turn into major successes, and who doesn't, work on the big 3 first. Attitude, attitude, attitude. Once these three are in line, you will be amazed at how easy the remaining combination numbers show up to open your safe to success.
Richard Vegas ?
About The Author
Richard Vegas is a popular recording artist and internet marketing professional. He invites you to subscribe to his FREE weekly ezine "Wing-Tips" Teaching The Success System That Never Fails, at: http://www.1-work-at-home-based-business-opportunities.com. You may also hear some of Richard's free music at: http://www.1-work-at-home-based-business-opportunities.com.
http://www.1-work-at-home-based-business-opportunities.com
detailed home cleaning Lake Forest ..What is Optimum Performance? This question raises different responses from... Read More
As a work-life and career coach, I regularly work with... Read More
Energy and persistence conquer all things. - Benjamin FranklinThough Ben... Read More
(excerpted from the book Seven Strategies for Wealth and Happiness)Wouldn't... Read More
Coaching is about living great lives. It's about living lives... Read More
I can tell, with 95% accuracy, if you are going... Read More
1. They are hard working. There is no such thing... Read More
I recently was made aware of two comparative statistics that... Read More
Okay, so you've finally made that big decision to start... Read More
What would happen if you lived your life by design... Read More
Feeling overworked and underpaid? If you're starting to feel like... Read More
Just how powerful is the Subconscious Mind and how can... Read More
Lesson 1. Category Well Being Plan to do this.Stop blaming... Read More
Have you ever wondered if there was a way to... Read More
After all the things I have shared with you this... Read More
Find a higher reason to reach your goal than just... Read More
When you are working over time but yet you do... Read More
Periodically re-check and refine (or redefine) your goals It's no... Read More
Have you ever felt as if you are beating your... Read More
With three kids, a business, a husband with a business,... Read More
I have been studying several books lately that deal with... Read More
What's holding you back?One of my clients came to me... Read More
Signs of DiscontentYou don't need a degree in psychology to... Read More
Wealth is more than money. It's abundance, or as the... Read More
"All the adversity I've had in my life, all my... Read More
trusted cleaning company Des Plaines ..Success is creating what you want the way you want... Read More
"And when it rains on your parade, look up rather... Read More
You may not realise it yet but you may have... Read More
Read these four simple steps that reveal how... Read More
Everyone wants to be successful. However, many people often rely... Read More
The present model of business and career motivation, the one... Read More
Depending on the person, challenges can either make or break... Read More
Have you ever noticed when playing a video game, or... Read More
There is no substitute for direct personal application. Information or... Read More
Have you ever had such thoughts like "I always fall... Read More
We must never allow a day to pass without finding... Read More
The entrepreneur game is filled with an amazing variety of... Read More
There are certain laws that when obeyed will bring great... Read More
The Winner's Walk is a key strategy in the sport... Read More
I bet you want to be wealthy, but somehow the... Read More
Personal power is an INSIDE JOB. It doesn't mean getting... Read More
Napoleon Hill coined the concept of the mastermind alliance in... Read More
Because Not All Skills Are Equal?Public Speaking MasteryHello,Tom Cruise is... Read More
One of the keys to being successful in anything you... Read More
I thought this was unbelievable, but it's true.On average, security... Read More
Well I'll tell you what it's not. Even thought many... Read More
Arsenal Football Club were the Champions of the Premier league... Read More
Why do diets end up in gained weight? Why do... Read More
If that sounds like you, you're not alone. Everyone needs... Read More
If you'd like to fulfill your long-held dreams, try a... Read More
Success |