Are the endless lists of Top-7's and Top-10's taxing your brain and your memory? Do you ever feel like trying to keep all these ideas straight, let alone apply them properly at the correct moment in time an overwhelming chore? How often do you find yourself having to review these lists? Perhaps endlessly until the next list comes out and then it's back to square one again.
Wouldn't you rather live, work and be spontaneously effective, without having to pull out your "how to" lists? Just imagine for a moment beng able to live this way. Doesn't this feel like a weight has just been taken off your shoulders? Don't you already feel more competent, more confident. Now I know you "think" this is not possible, but I would like to suggest that you already, even if you doubt this, know deep inside you what is the right thing for you in every moment.
You see most of us have had this knowledge drummed out of us by the numerous years of education each of us has undertaken. This probably sounds odd to you but if you notice how confident recent graduates feel about entering the work world you'll find that most are paralyzed by fear and self doubt. Shouldn't all this education make them feel capable and confident? Well, it's supposed to but the actual effect is the reverse.
So with all this self doubt many keep looking outside of themselves, perhaps to others to provide them with a list of instructions of how to work and live effectively. So my question becomes, how do you know if any of these lists actually work? Well you might say, "if they achieve the results I'm looking for and thereby make me feel happy and fulfilled".
Now I wish to point something out here, and it's a subtle point. In order for you to know whether something is right for you, you already have to have an internal reference point by which to measure it by. You might wish to refer to a recent article I recently wrote, entitled "Intelligent Emotions" , to see a more elaborate discussion about this.
Without such an inner reference point, if something that happened to you was supposedly beneficial for you you wouldn't know unless you spontaneously felt some feelings of happiness associated with it. The fact that you feel the happiness at all is a sign that there is an inner intelligence inside of you that "already knows" what is good for you!
So how does it feel to know that you have had this inner intelligence "drummed out of you" during your life? Probably not so good. That feeling is a sign that having it drummed out of you is "not good for you"! Are you ready and willing to reclaim it for your self and live a full, competent and confident life?
If so you may wish to visit the web site in my bio below. All the best in your journey.
Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is a Key Note Speaker, Author, Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build phyiscal, emotional, mental and spirtual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being. Web Site: http://www.telecoaching4u.com
Brookfield limo Midway .. Lockport Chicago limo O’HareThe Internet is a fast growing medium, trancending the personal... Read More
The 2004 election is over--at least in the minds of... Read More
As the holiday season starts to settle in, the workload... Read More
Many mistakes can be made in business and if you... Read More
Gas prices continue to go through the roof and increased... Read More
1. Use subheads throughout your ad copy.Subheads are great to... Read More
It is possible for small companies and individual business people... Read More
Have you put a lot of effort, time, and money... Read More
1. Great Things Take Time ? Three years passed between... Read More
When sending mail to clients and potential clients, make your... Read More
Seven Questions to Improve Your Business, Your Relationships, and Your... Read More
Always include a powerful signature on every email you send... Read More
Whether you are self employed or you work for someone... Read More
Leadership, leadership development and leadership training are "Hot" issues in... Read More
At Macquarie University in the early '90s, three Australian early... Read More
The following tips are from an article we contributed to... Read More
Let's put to rest the fallacy that success, in sales... Read More
Seven Reasons Why Training Doesn't Produce the Desired Results and... Read More
The number may seem grim for Web-based commerce. In 2004... Read More
There are many places you can get books, and I... Read More
Ten Tips for Staying ConnectedMany of my business clients tell... Read More
Many new coaches struggle to attract their first client. Often,... Read More
Having business partner or planning to start a business with... Read More
Do you find great joy in being a coach? If... Read More
1. Make a clear, specific commitment to what you want.... Read More
Medinah cheap limo ..Most people wish they read more. It is an activity... Read More
One way to manage your time more effectively is to... Read More
Seven Questions to Improve Your Business, Your Relationships, and Your... Read More
Many businesses lose money yearly because they don't think creatively... Read More
I have some good news and I have some bad... Read More
Did you know that there is one critical difference between... Read More
Business etiquette is essentially about building relationships with colleagues, clients... Read More
You need sales and you wanted them yesterday. Here are... Read More
Buckling under the weight of chronic corporate restructuring, and frustrated... Read More
Which one are you? An effective IT project manager, able... Read More
Almost daily, newspapers, business magazines, radio and television carry reports... Read More
A lot of people are at a loss when it... Read More
Gas prices continue to go through the roof and increased... Read More
How do you increase business profits? Answer the following questions... Read More
It is possible for small companies and individual business people... Read More
Have you put a lot of effort, time, and money... Read More
If you don't possess the time, money or inclination to... Read More
Here are seven excellent ways to earn income from international... Read More
Do you find great joy in being a coach? If... Read More
Only one of every 5 businesses makes it to its... Read More
'Tis the season to give. And finding the right gift... Read More
In Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen's original "Chicken Soup... Read More
Are you scratching your head after business events wondering why... Read More
Studies have proven that there is one reason why people... Read More
The following tips are from an article we contributed to... Read More
Top Quick Tips |