There are those that walk amongst us who have followed all the advice, diligently dieted and exercised with genuine effort for long periods of time, yet still fail to lose their excess weight.
Even more heartbreaking for those of us who genuinely struggle with obesity are the accusations of sloth and laziness from those thin people who eat junk all day long and show no physical sign of their own gluttony. "Why can't you just be like everyone else?", they demand. "It must be all your own fault."
"After all," they say in derisory voice, "Losing weight is easy. Just eat less and exercise more. If you don't lose weight, you are just weak willed."
Every person who has never had a real problem thinks they know all the easy answers. All those underlying unwarranted generalisations we face from others just about every day of our lives is a little recognised yet very real and severe form of discrimination, based on the same types of wrong thinking as prejudice against race, skin color, creed, gender, and other well recognised forms of hatred.
In fact, life experience has taught me that the less a person actually knows about obesity and weight loss, the more they think they know.
I spent time a few years ago under the care of some of the most distinguished and knowledgable internationally renowned Professors researching weight loss and obesity from the University of Sydney and the Royal Prince Albert Hospital's Obesity Clinic in Sydney, Australia. I will always remember what Professor Ian Caterson told me one day:
"The more we learn about obesity, the more we realise how little we really understand and how much more there is to discover."
Would any of those permanently thin critics care to explain a man with whom I shared many physiotherapy and hydrotherapy sessions during my time on the program at the Obesity Clinic? He was normal down the left side of his body, though obese down the right side of his body only.
Next time someone verbally berates you for carrying excess body weight and tries to tell you how easy it is to be lean & trim, try asking them what they would recommend to that man that some of the top obesity researchers in the world don't yet know.
Then, while your critic is looking dumbfounded and fumbling for some feeble explanation, hit them with a few more questions, such as:
When you see the jaw of your critic drop to the floor, as they turn pale and look like they've been hit by a runaway train, when their silence shows that their ignorance and prejudice has been thoroughly exposed, just calmly walk away.
At this point, both of you now know that, even though you may carrying excessive body weight, it is your critic who has the bigger problem.
Trevor Johnson is a Masters qualified researcher cum electronic publisher with over twenty years personal experience in the battle against obesity. Objective information and the pros and cons of many types of weight loss therapies is found at his "Weight Loss, Dieting & Obesity" site: http://www.dietwords.com
affordable house cleaning Park Ridge .."I'd love to lose weight, but I don't have the... Read More
Watching television exercises our eyes but nothing else. Unfortunately, it... Read More
It is not recommended to lose more than 1 pound... Read More
I've worked with hundreds of people who were interested in... Read More
Yes, you read it right?no diets!The first step in this... Read More
Frankly, I'm puzzled whenever I hear this from somebody who's... Read More
Contrary to common belief, your weight is not really the... Read More
Abdominoplasty, or "tummy tuck" is a major surgical procedure that... Read More
Did you say there's a way I can eat what... Read More
Like millions of men and women, I started resolving to... Read More
20 WAYS TO LOSE WEIGHT1. Take it one step at... Read More
To say that dieting rarely leads to sustainable weight loss... Read More
Fat burning exercise is not merely one that will burn... Read More
When considering that pathological eating disorders and their related diseases... Read More
It seems everyone is looking for that magic bullet -... Read More
Everyone has their own individual reason for joining a health... Read More
Although liposuction is one of the most commonly performed cosmetic... Read More
With this key, I GUARANTEE YOU WILL LOSE ALL THE... Read More
The Atkins diet can be boring because of the limited... Read More
Have you ever thought, "I just can not seem to... Read More
Have you ever wondered where destiny would lead you? Have... Read More
When it comes to the matter of weight loss, peoples... Read More
For the person who wants to shed a few pounds... Read More
I have had some e-mails come in and everyone is... Read More
Diabetes is one of the fastest growing diseases today. One... Read More
affordable house cleaning Mundelein ..Ready for a hardcore diet to get lean in a... Read More
Healthy eating has become part of your life, but you're... Read More
Control that sweet tooth. Remember that sweet things generally mean... Read More
Your Can Turn Fat into Muscle......Fact or Fiction???Completely False!!!!First of... Read More
Are you overweight?Most people are afraid to admit they are.It... Read More
Frankly, I'm puzzled whenever I hear this from somebody who's... Read More
Your brain has this really interesting system that is kind... Read More
You have noticed your obese friend suddenly slimmer. You want... Read More
When it all comes down to losing or gaining weight,... Read More
It is well known that about two-thirds of the U.S.... Read More
Be Prepared. For the Boy Scouts it means you are... Read More
As parents who've had gastric bypass we face many challenges... Read More
Axiom Number FourTo have a great selling diet plan encourage... Read More
To say that Americans are obsessed with dieting is an... Read More
All Diets Are Based on the Same Premise: Eat Less... Read More
You've heard the popular advice on weight loss diets. Cut... Read More
Recently a woman went public in her online diet community... Read More
It's easy to lose sight of our goals, "Do I... Read More
Are you up to a cave man diet? You won't... Read More
Are you a 'look-and-lose' dieter? Have you studied every diet... Read More
Dieting is not easy. If it were, we would probably... Read More
Families who dine out with their loved ones who've had... Read More
Making the Decision:Whether you are interested losing ten pounds that... Read More
A really easy, fast way to weight loss is walking... Read More
The latest trend in the area of weight loss is... Read More
Weight Loss |