When was the last time you focused so much on a task that you forgot to eat? You did not really forget, but you were too much interested in what you were working on to stop doing it and go to the fridge. Years ago, when your body was slim and your head swollen with projects, did you ever think that to be a grown up would not mean to be responsible and free?
Stop looking for somebody to sue: nobody shovelled food in your mouth. Stop whining about commercials that influence you: nobody tied you up in front of the telly. Stop opening your mouth and closing your mind. You know, everybody know, that the higher the education, the lower the weight. If you point at a person you know who has a PhD and 30 extra pounds, you act exactly as those people who say that there is no correlation between smoking and lung cancer since their grand father died of old age after having smoked thousands of cigarettes. I don't write for you. Bye bye!
Now that we are between us, let's move on to the main point. How much does this portrait look like you:
First, recognize your qualities and make them shine in others' eyes. Modesty? You are not asked to show haughtiness but to get a sense of pride from your abilities. Would the world be better if Mozart's father had shyly hidden his son's gift? Don't let anyone mislead you: those who advocate modesty have nothing to show. Most time, they do not want you to succeed because it would be the evidence of their own failure. They brandish their righteousness against you because it is, by far, easier to damage your chances than to improve themselves. So, be honest and recognize your qualities.
Some people might advise you to devote your life to a charity cause. It is another way to prevent you from going ahead of them. Do you think that it would have been a great idea if Pasteur had chosen, out of charity, to visit the poor instead of inventing "pasteurization"?
Then, choose the domain in which you will be able to scintillate. Again, do not be humble. The satisfaction of reaching a goal is proportional to the difficulty you encounter to reach it. If you aim to learn arranging flowers, sure, you will succeed, but you will feel as bored as today and your thirst for something to fulfill your life will remain as burning as it is right now. You need to be confronted with a task exciting enough to prevent you from dropping it to go out to eat, or to take time to order a pizza. If the excitement is not rewarding enough, you are going to turn towards "the fridge consolation".
Your goal must also be rather difficult to reach because you are going to need time to change your way of life; so, decide to master the violin, to write an anthology about Roman Poetry, to learn a foreign language or to obtain a degree in chemistry; anything requiring your intellectual faculties to fully work and that you will not be able to complete in a couple of weeks is an activity that deserves to be chosen. Of course, the better you like your goal, the greater your chance to reach it, but do not worry: usually, we are attracted by what we guess we are good at.
Not only "decide" to change, make your decision official: proudness will help you to go on the day you are tired or disheartened. Multiply your chances to succeed by eliminating the childish desire for "telling them". If you suffer from not being estimated at your true value, make yourself known to your own eyes. The rest will come. Within three years you are going to gain higher education that will lead you to higher income while losing extra weight. Sure, people will notice.
Gabrielle Guichard, a French teacher who can be reached on gabrielleguichard.com and listened to on gabrielleguichard.com.
kitchen deep cleaning Deerfield ..Dieting will continue to fail most dieters, unless personalized weight... Read More
The diet that worked for meI have had a lot... Read More
The diary is an essential help in reaching your weight... Read More
Actually, I was reading about fad diet and suddenly I... Read More
What a great world we live in. You want something,... Read More
I had 14 weight/health-oriented newsletters in my inbox this morning.... Read More
Spring is here and swimsuit weather is just around the... Read More
The Quest to Reach Your Ideal WeightIt was late in... Read More
Good health is all too easily taken for granted until... Read More
There are numerous ways to make a bad weight loss... Read More
Are you concerned about the lack of exercise your child... Read More
Be Prepared. For the Boy Scouts it means you are... Read More
Very few Americans are satisfied with their current weights. There... Read More
If you have been eating as usual and the pounds... Read More
The Order of Energy UtilizationBack to our table of stored... Read More
We in the diet and exercise industry have our own... Read More
Many people want to lose a few of those annoying... Read More
What do I mean by that?Well, carrots are good for... Read More
Lousy Reasons to Lose Weight"I want to be a size... Read More
Just like any other diet, the Atkins diet can become... Read More
Millions of people spend billions of dollars, hoping to achieve... Read More
My first article provided steps for fast healthy weight loss.... Read More
I am so grateful that you're taking steps to take... Read More
It's always great to find a protein supplement with very... Read More
Diet Fads-Forget about 'EmAnother fad "best diet" bites the dust.... Read More
interior house cleaning Highland Park ..After weight loss surgery it is important to include as... Read More
Many people (especially on the net) claim that you can... Read More
Stop Being Influenced by Food Ads on TVThere is much... Read More
IntroductionObesity is the most common health problem facing children today.... Read More
Good health is all too easily taken for granted until... Read More
We are a large people. 65% of us are overweight,... Read More
Diners have become more health-conscious the last few years, and... Read More
In 1994, I had a RNY surgery. At 350 lbs... Read More
If you're taking a fiber supplement or eating a high... Read More
Food manufacturers can easily manipulate a whole population by the... Read More
Like many people I've been on dozens of diet plans... Read More
America is getting more obese every year. Even our children... Read More
There are currently over 100 billion dollars sold in weight-loss... Read More
I was shocked. I started to cry...After the holidays, I... Read More
Have I become invisible or are people just aiming right... Read More
Your Can Turn Fat into Muscle......Fact or Fiction???Completely False!!!!First of... Read More
What is the link between Hispanics and obesity? Are people... Read More
If only there were a 'better body boot camp', we'd... Read More
Thankfully, winter does not last forever! In the spring there... Read More
I learned about gaining weight when I heard the question... Read More
Now this is the real American Dream! I'm here to... Read More
Did you say there's a way I can eat what... Read More
I am sure that when I mention setting objectives for... Read More
Used a diet pill recently and got depressed because you... Read More
If you've been pursuing a lighter, healthier version of yourself,... Read More
Weight Loss |