First, get started by tracking your eating for at least a week or more. I carry a little purse sized notebook and just jot down what I eat during the day. Then each evening I input it into the Food & Exercise Diary for Windows software program I use (described in the Tools section of my website).
Tracking what I eat allows me to see trends over time, and also makes it very clear why my weight rises sometimes and falls others. If you decide to track your eating, it's best to simply capture yourself being yourself. Don't try to eat better just for the sake of logging better values. The idea is to discover your real eating habits and patterns.
To demonstrate how easily we "forget" what we've eaten, try to write a log of what you ate yesterday from memory. You'll be able to remember the main meals, but you'll probably have more trouble remembering the little bits here and there. You may even think you didn't eat anything except the meals, but most people do and yes, chewing gum counts, and so does anything you put in your mouth. Just list the basic foods, meals, etc., as best you can recall. Then put that list aside, and today write down what you actually eat as soon as possible after you eat it.
Don't write your log before you eat either. That's not being yourself, that's dictating a prescribed diet. If you're following a certain eating plan, that's fine, but still wait until you've eaten it to write it down. If you remember what you already ate today, write that down too, including that tiny nibble of cake as you walked past, and that little grab from the peanut dish. Everything you eat or drink including plain water, must be listed.
Those extra tastes and nibbles can easily add up to 250 or more calories every day. Especially if you tend to taste while you cook. Here's a diet tip: Stop licking the spoon! Quitting those little tastes while you cook could save you from adding a few pounds this winter.
I know it sounds hard to do but stop licking the beaters, scraping the last bits out of the bowl and popping bits in your mouth "to see if it's done." Just wait until it's ready, then go ahead and eat some, but remember, those tastes add up and they are not worth carrying around five extra pounds. Put the stirring spoons and beaters immediately under water if you must, or give them to the kids as a treat.
The point of a food diary is to capture your regular eating patterns, then choose one thing at a time to work on changing. It's easier to work on changing one small habit at a time. No, each individual thing is not going to cause major weight loss but they do add up.
Resolve now that you will drop the habit of licking the spoon, or tasting as you cook. I can hear you wailing that you won't know if it tastes right. Okay so you need one little teensy taste, but not hundreds, get it? A tiny bit on the tip of a spoon or fork tines, is not the same as multiple big bites while cooking. Tasting is not eating. Licking the entire remaining contents of the bowl you used for making pudding is not the same as a taste either. That's a serving. It's better to just break the habit. Sure, it's a holdover from when you were a kid. It was a treat to lick the spoon, but you're not a kid anymore are you? Let your kids have their turn but give this habit up for yourself.
Remember, it's these little changes that create real results. It's one trick of those who stay naturally slender. Likewise, when you discover your general eating habits you can choose one thing to change, cut back, or discard entirely. Sometimes it's best to just take it slowly as in weaning yourself from whole milk to skim. First try 4% and when that seems okay, switch down again to 2%. Eventually you'll be drinking skim milk and thinking it's fine, in fact once you get used to it, you'll think whole milk tastes like pure cream.
Of course whole milk tastes better than skim, so do thousands of other foods taste better than each other, but you must choose what you'll regularly eat. Do you want to consume a large portion of calories and fat in your milk or would you rather eat something more substantial plus the milk?
What if there were a global energy failure and we no longer had fast food restaurants? Would you curl up in a ball and not know what else to eat or would you simply learn what else is out there for nourishment? I'd venture you'd adapt to the circumstance. Look at "Restaurant Confidential" by Michael F. Jacobson and Jayne Hurley for a shocking surprise when you see how many calories are in a regular restaurant meal. Once you see you're eating triple the calories you realize, it makes it much easier to cut back from eating out every night to three times a week, then twice or once, until one day you find you eat out for special occasions only.
I hear from a lot of people who say they can't understand why they can't lose weight, yet they eat out at restaurants or have fast food two or more times a day. They simply don't realize they are probably eating far more than 2000 calories a day, and if they are not pretty active, that can add up to quite a few extra pounds. It doesn't do much good to figure out how many calories you need to lose weight and then far exceed that number simply because you aren't paying attention.
Tracking what you eat does takes some effort but it's a great way to discover what's really going on regarding your habits and triggers.
You may find you actually reach into the candy dish six times a day or that you chew an entire pack of gum every day. You could be drinking hundreds of calories every day in just one or two extra soft drinks or coffee drinks. In fact, some coffee drinks contain more than 500 calories each. That's usually more than you'd eat for your entire breakfast.
Start with just a small blank notebook, and if you enjoy the process you may want to look into a software program, but no matter what, the sooner you start capturing yourself being yourself, the sooner you're well on your way to weight loss success.
~~ Kathryn Martyn, Master NLP Practitioner, EFT counselor, author of Changing Beliefs, Your First Step to Permanent Weight Loss, and owner of onemorebite-weightloss.com
Get the onemorebite-weightloss.com: Inspirational Mini Lessons Using EFT and NLP for Ending the Struggle with Weight Loss.
after renovation cleaning Glenview ..As a weight loss coach I speak will people regularly... Read More
Repeat a lie often enough and people take it as... Read More
WHAT DOES BEING FIT REALLY MEAN?The "INSIDE-OUT" approach to fitness... Read More
Are you overweight? Then you probably want to lose some... Read More
Learning the jargon is part of the weight loss journey.... Read More
I recently received the following email:Q. Five weeks ago, I... Read More
From the book Spider's Big CatchLike many people, I've decided... Read More
A bad day or even a bad week is not... Read More
This is a very important topic that needs to be... Read More
If you were going to travel to the other side... Read More
Taming the See Food Eat Food ResponseWhat happens when you're... Read More
There are many subscriber programs available both online and in... Read More
Looking to avoid the dieting mistakes many of our weight... Read More
The diary is an essential help in reaching your weight... Read More
Although it is obviously not possible to turn the clock... Read More
Getting Started on The Clean DietIf you want to lose... Read More
When you hear a doctor or a personal trainer say,... Read More
Are you feeling down and out? Do you feel even... Read More
Why has Phentermine stopped helping me lose weight?Many people are... Read More
Experts say obesity will overtake smoking as the biggest health... Read More
"The kind of thoughts that you plant in your mind,... Read More
THE 200 POINT SYSTEMWith so many different diets available, how... Read More
In the early nineties doctors were beginning to see the... Read More
Some of you will not like what I have to... Read More
America is a nation of self-disclosers, amiably acceptant of our... Read More
no-contract cleaning service Lincolnshire ..Losing weight on hips and thighs has always been a... Read More
If you're on a weight loss program you're under constant... Read More
From the moment of birth your first emotional experiences establish... Read More
It is well known that about two-thirds of the U.S.... Read More
Although all of the risks involved in gastric bypass surgery... Read More
Adverse Events with Volumetrics Dr. Barbara Rolls is a well... Read More
Going away for your holidays will also bring with it... Read More
According to the BMI chart, if you are overweight, you... Read More
Negative calorie foods are said to use more calories to... Read More
Teenagers with body mass indices between 25 and 30 require... Read More
For the person who wants to shed a few pounds... Read More
No matter what the reason, successful weight loss and healthy... Read More
More than any other time in history, people are all... Read More
When you have started a diet in the past, how... Read More
Is this even possible?Well hold on to your seat because... Read More
Americans have their French fries, the British have their chips,... Read More
What is the best form of physical activity?The best form... Read More
Perhaps you've had them too, nightmares about rice cakes, granola,... Read More
Let me ask you a personal question. As you read... Read More
Chant the following each day, several times. They are mantras... Read More
Gastric bypass patients often find themselves regaining weight soon after... Read More
With obesity and disease increasing dramatically, many fitness experts are... Read More
How to Estimate How Many Calories You Can Have and... Read More
Any dietary plan on the market has some portion of... Read More
Can You Lose Weight Where You Want?If you have excess... Read More
Weight Loss |